i have pretty good manners. ladies first, don't belch around people...the really important stuff . the door-opening thing can get awkward depending on which way it opens and other factors, but i try. i can be blunt. not rude, but i'm pretty direct, so maybe that would be called bad manners. idk.

my integrity is more important to me. i've told bosses "no" when they wanted me to do something illegal or very immoral. i'd never hurt a woman, kid or anyone else who couldn't defend themselves. bullies on the other hand...i used to mess them up . the nerds they pounded on had no chance and that's just not right.

Manners are nice, but if I met a great guy who was lacking in them and had absolute integrity that would be fine with me..

kinda funny how opening poster has not been back

nor answered his own question