Dude probably isn't dangerous or married but he certainly seems to be showing signs of the early onset of azzholeness

lol you know im playin

Funny I just had one like this
I do the phone thing first because I do get nervous at a first meeting. This guy sounds like he's drooling too much. Yeah like that.
Whatever you do...don't get into his car!!!

needy people who act like they like you so much when the barely know you are such a turn off

I know, me 2. but not about the glory hole, he and i are still on for that.

And wouldn't a gentleman do things the way the lady requests at first? That's what I'm sayingDude seems kinda azzholish if he can't even respect a womans wishes before they even meet.

OMG they ALLL are here in Texas so far..

WTF..

Be smooooth.. JEEZ...

How are you ever gonna end up smacking me around, and calling me a w****, if your gonna start out like that?

That was the quandary honey child.

WELL!! After the whole deal he called, and we talked, and I told him how I felt and the fact I wasnt feeling the whole meeting thing, and it just got worse.

For a while we talked, it was fine.


Then it got into the sex area.


Instead of saying "I dont think its appropriate to discuss at this time, which was my FIRST instinct, I said, hesitantly..

Umm.. "I do whatever it takes to make my partner happy."

He then probed.. (greaatt)


he said : "What will you do?"


I said...

I dont really want to get into that.

(I wanted to hang up right then)

he pressed.

He said "I mean will you do everything?"


I said: I will do whatever makes my partner happy.

Then I said what are dealbreakers in that situation.

He said so everything? (oh lwad, I was getting creeped out)

Then he started to list, do ya do this?, this? this?

I say where I draw the line.

It was just messed up.

And I just kinda was thinking about how to tell him to get lost at this point.

ANYWAY.. I ended up hanging up on him, after warning him, "he shouldnt say every single stupid thing possible to a woman he is trying to impress", and Why are you sking me this? "Do you ask all women this?" He said no. I said. THEN WHY YA ASKIN ME??

He also asked me to cam with him, and pull my shirt against me later when I do, and also (and heres the kicker) asked me if I have "saggy ****". O yeah, and earlier in convo he was asking me my waist size.. and i was like NE-VER. And then at that point since I thought O hell no, this guys shallow, Im so never going to see him, or talk to him again, I said, "but my breasts are ______ size. ( I had to get back at him somehow, and make him suffer)

Anyway, I excused myself off the phone, and collected myself. furious as hell.

He called back, and I told him "what kind of questions are those your asking me?" And basicly after a few more choice words, I told him to loose my number.


So, the moral of the story?

TOTALLY TOTALLY get to know people first, by phone, email, any way you can before dating someone, or meeting them.

AH! It can be creepy even doing that.

I agree, to a certain extent.

I dont think there is necessarily anything wrong with anyone taking a gamble and meeting someone they dont know all that well. But i do think it should always be totally on terms reasonable to both parties, and for it to not be forced too quickly. If both people are eager to meet after a few messages and a phone call, there is nothing wrong with it. But, in doing it so quickly, you are taking a bigger risk, and should factor that into your plans to protect yourself.

If someone is after a quick lay, they will soon disappear when they realise they arent going to get that. Yes you have it on your profile that you are not into that. But that doesnt mean that a man wont think he will have a chance at convincing you otherwise if he can get you in front of him. However if you have been chatting for some time, he might know you well enough to know for sure that you mean it. You will also get a better idea of his intentions too, as if sex is his prime goal, he is likely to be bringing it up in conversation a lot.

I am glad you decided not to go, and its obvious that was the right decision!

SAD This guy is such a creep he can't even make it thru the phone call level.

This is why you got to look at it in levels.First online,then phone level,maybe cam level,then a meeting,then a date. Most of the dumazzez will blow it before they make it to the meeting level.

Thanks, and your advice today surely worked. You know, you should do narration, orr commentary on tv.

So.. so.. you wanna ****?

I know.

Thank youuuuu Lee Earl Jonesssss.

You rule.

xo

Apparently he knew it too and that's why he tried to avoid it.


CREEPY

THATS what I thought!

I totally laughed about that afterward.

This guy couldn't even control himself long enough for a phone call.I swear,some of these guys don't even seem fit to walk down the friggin street!