They won't ever let me login there...

I wish I could get more breaks from being a mom.

You should go get a pedicure.

I can babysit...

do what you did before you had kids

I understood you Fear!

Take a walk-

check out the library-


go shopping- and take all the time you want doing it!

I was continuing the joke

Haha well thanku al 4 tha giggle its tha only time iv smiled since my kids left yesterday! Tha funny thing is that its after midnight here im trapped i did go 2 lunch with tha girls 2day bu still felt lost i mite try some of the other suggestions 2moro bu il b counting tha hours till they come home...doh

Pamper yourself. Go get a manicure, a pedicure, a massage. Go window shopping, and if you see something you like, for yourself, buy it!


You are too young and pretty...enjoy life!

I know Sweetie!!! j/k!!!

Aww thanx lcjw xo i dont think i remember how 2 pamper myself bu im guna try lol

I know, that's tough to deal with at first...but, it's important to get full mileage out of you time, cause they will someday be grown and away, and so, you are practicing, right?
I have faith in you, though...
And there are some good suggestions here...manicure, shopping, pedicure, that bubble bath...just think, for once you don't have to act like a role model, so list all the things you don't do when your kids are around and pick one...
No, lol, I don't mean get stoned.

How old are the kids?

I share my son with his dad.

I say, try less to be in control, and allow the journey to take you all where it should. Be a mother the same way you did, and realise the choices are left to something outside of yourself.

Do all you can, and accept the rest. This is as miserable as you allow it to be.


You all may find that there is an appreciation you never had, or would maybe not ever obtain before because of the things most people, and we ourselves take for granted.

You may just create a bond, ad a closeness more unbreakable than before.