In response to IndnPrncs:

Are you saying I should lower my standards?

If you are a Nice Guy then the world owes you something

Most of the time, girls 18-30 don't know what they want.

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Really?? Then the world has been holding out on me for a LONG time! ;)

By the way, why does girls seem to think it strange that a guy my age has little to no experience in the dating world? It seems that I'm automatically disqualified from gaining any experience in getting to know a lady because of my lack of past experience. Pretty flaky according to what lots of women say they want.

Have you not figured out that when you are talking to a woman, you are basically applying for a job??

Employers won't usually hire you if you don't have experience, even if the only way for you to GET experience is for them to hire you.

A woman ( like an employer ) usually wants someone who knows what they are doing.

K now hear this... for every hetrosexual woman getting laid, having a relationship, or dating, there is one hetrosexual man who is with her.


Same with gay people or lesbians.

Ok? So no more women are more successful stuff.. Sense is in order here!

Its YOUR situation.. just.. sayin.

Really???

Lemme let you in on something.

Let's say there is this bar. Inside this bar is a hideous looking woman, and a hideous looking man. Both are simply out to get laid.

Chances are, the woman is gonna find a guy horny, or drunk, enough for her to get laid.

The hideous looking guy, on the other hand, will be very lucky if he doesn't wind up getting hauled away by the cops if he starts to hit on one of the women in said bar.

Women ARE more " successful " because they have something that men want. It also helps their case that there are an awful lot of men who aren't real picky about where they get it.

As for around here ( this site ), I don't know the exact numbers, but I would be willing to make a pretty good guess that the ratio of men to women around here is at least 2:1.

In places like this, women would definitely seem to have the advantage because they can simply sit back and wait for the ' hotties ', ' hunks ' or whatever the hell you want to call them to show themselves.

We all see it. We all read the profiles. " I want someone who is intelligent, charming, funny.....etc etc etc...."

That's all well and good until a guy half as smart, not quite as charming, but MUCH better looking shows up. Then it's time to break out the drool sponges.

I'm not saying that men aren't guilty of it as well. I have seen lots of guys around here go completely bugshit over a pretty face with a vapid personality.

What? What do they want??? Please share. Even at 2:1 odds I am still here looking for a dang date after a year and a half.

Only because you aren't willing to give it away, sweets. :-)

Yes. 100% Ive seen not so typicly "beautiful" people have partners and get laid.

You ever see "the little couple"? 2 dwarfs.


People without limbs, parapalegics, people with diseases, grossly obese people.. Married.. happily.


Ive seen sexy, talented, educated, brilliant, desireable, desirous people be alone for life.


Ive seen bullies, jerks, mean, horrible people, have people who stand by their side.

It happens when its time, and were ready, all we can do is put ourselves out there, and grow, and make our place in the world.

And it still stands, for every one of those women with someone, there is a man with someone.

There is much to say about magnetisim.

It is what it is.

I guess you are correct, my OSU stained glass is MINE!!!!!LOL

Ummmm....you DO realize that it's " stained " because OSU is so crappy. Right??? LMAO

OMG I love that bondage bear.

Glad you like it. He's one of my favorite avatars...lmao

I was screwing around on Google one night, wound up finding him after I left the Vermont Teddy bear site...lol

Id put it on my car, but I dont want to be one of those tacky people putting it out there like that in public in RL.

Thats awesome though.

I want some bugsh!t.