Topic: Losing your best friend cuz you love her...
ap8108's photo
Sat 07/11/09 10:59 AM
i guess is worth the risk , is better to just say it and don't stay in the "what if " right?.....even tho i've waited 3 years ...
thank you guys

GRIFFIN_LIZZARD's photo
Sat 07/11/09 11:01 AM
Take her to a quiet dinner and talk don't do it on a phone or on a whim somewhere. better to talk it out that throw it at her.

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Sat 07/11/09 11:49 PM




Griffin unless your friend gave you the indication that she felt the same, you should have squashed that feeling... Women can be just friends and when you're a friend they don't often switch to the other lane...

A friend of mine did the same thing to me... I was very hurt and blown away that he changed our friendship, especially since I knew him well enough to know that he fell in love like he changed his underwear... We stayed friends but it always seemed weird and stressed after that... To this day we are friends but he's more angry than anything so I really don't talk to him that much...


Actually she did, she told me all the time she loved me, I guess she meant it in a friendship caring meaning rather than a romantic one.
Thats why this is so hard, we saw each other 2pm sunday and I said love you when I dropped her off and gave her a kiss, she said love you talk to you later. At 9:30pm I tried to call her to say goonight she ignored my call, so I waited, and then got a text message saying "I'm not feeling it, it's over.


Maybe I missed this on the other pages but did you two ever have an intimate type of friendship?

yes, we did but it seemed weird, so it kinda got put on the back burner for both of us. It was too early for both of us I thing.



That explains it better then, I thought you had always been "just friends" and then you tried to take it to the next level and she got scared. However, with the new info, it sounds like she just changed her mind. I had a guy do that to me, and you're right it sucks, but you get over it. If you want to.flowerforyou

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 07/11/09 11:53 PM
(((calleigh))) have you talked to Fear? he was all atwisted wondering where you were, I told him you were probably busy and would be back..:wink:

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Sat 07/11/09 11:54 PM

(((calleigh))) have you talked to Fear? he was all atwisted wondering where you were, I told him you were probably busy and would be back..:wink:


Actually I just reactivated my account like 5 minutes ago, so I haven't talked to anyone yet. Nice to be missed though.blushing

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 07/11/09 11:56 PM
look for the thread he made.. you can follow my posts if it's easier.. It was around 10 or so this morning...

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Sun 07/12/09 12:09 AM

look for the thread he made.. you can follow my posts if it's easier.. It was around 10 or so this morning...


what was the title of it?

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Sun 07/12/09 12:11 AM
I think it was "where's Calleigh" laugh laugh laugh let me look and I'll post it in her for you...

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Sun 07/12/09 12:15 AM

I think it was "where's Calleigh" laugh laugh laugh let me look and I'll post it in her for you...


LOL, k, thanks

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 07/12/09 12:15 AM
Here it is http://mingle2.com/topic/show/233951

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Sun 07/12/09 12:18 AM


I just found it. That's kind of cool that someone here actually missed me. I just wonder about that one girl who said I said a few parting words before I left? What was she talking about, I don't even know her?

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 07/12/09 12:28 AM
I think shewas just joking...

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Sun 07/12/09 12:30 AM

I think shewas just joking...


good to know...but yeah, i deactivated for a few days. tell him i'm back for however long this lasts this time, lol

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 07/12/09 12:31 AM
Aww did something happen?

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Sun 07/12/09 12:32 AM

Aww did something happen?


I have to take a break from mingle every so often. laugh

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 07/12/09 12:33 AM
I hear ya... I know a few that do the same...

GCLIFE's photo
Sun 07/12/09 12:42 AM
I just reactivated after 6 months...it wears itself out...i think this is one night only for me

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Sun 07/12/09 12:43 AM

I just reactivated after 6 months...it wears itself out...i think this is one night only for me


eh, depends on why you're here.flowerforyou

GCLIFE's photo
Sun 07/12/09 12:45 AM


I just reactivated after 6 months...it wears itself out...i think this is one night only for me


eh, depends on why you're here.flowerforyou


already been down the road of finding someone. she was special. that part of my life is over. it is strictly for humor and conversation at this point.

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Sun 07/12/09 12:49 AM
I'm here for the humor too!laugh