go and get yourself a rubber dick
OR
a phillipeno~ baps n balls

hope that helps

*smirk* I think I'll join ya'...

okay... if you feel that she can't please you fully with all of the lovely toys out there these days and you still want a man then your relationship is done.

i have no patience for people who believe in open relationships. sorry.

i know a girl who has a man and says she loves him but is looking for a woman to date while with him.

i figure ... if she really loved him enough.. the woman wouldn't be necessary.

BUT IM VERY VERY LONELY..........

Have your gf drink beer, fart in public, leave the toilet seat up and generally treat you like crap for a week so you can remember all that you've been missing?

I'd say in all seriousness that you need to figure out what it is about men that you're missing. I agree with previous posters that you should be honest with her, explore the possibility of a threesome. Good luck.

Consider one thing: Do you want kids? Do you want to get married? (unless you live in Iowa)

...

Biggest of all: Do you want to be 45+ years old, and still being confused, looking for a hookup, because you cheated or can't make up your mind?


I swear, if a girl isn't kissing another girl or fooling around, they are not "cool." (according to pervs and idiots)

funny how that works huh!?

i dont care if you're straight or gay. but figure it out before you start ruining peoples hearts with your lack of decision making skills.

I don't do any of the above that you mentioned. (except socially drink) So I have no idea what you are talking about.

Threesomes are supposed to be no strings attached, but it never ends up like that. I wouldn't want to have one anyways..yuck.

Fine, have a threesome, it will give you temporary pleasure, but will not identify what you really want in life, such as morales and values.

I was obviously being facetious. Not all men have these endearing traits. I merely was trying to make the point that the grass is always greener on the other side. The OP should consider the negative traits of men as well as the positive ones that she seems to be missing.

As for threesomes, whether I personally would have one (which I wouldn't)is irrelevant. To each their own. If her gf is also bi, perhaps she too occasionally misses men, it may work for them. I don't think that it necessarily means she has no morals or values if they choose to participate in one rather than forego the loving relationship they have. The OP has enough morals and values to be concerned about hurting her gf, that's better than many and good enough for me. I was merely suggesting she talk to her gf about her feelings honestly, that's all.

i don't care, as long as u aint on my patch!

Love isn't thinking about being with somebody else.

Excellent.

There isn't much longevity in threesomes. You don't open up the Sunday paper and see Mr. & Mrs. Whatzizface AND Juanita Gelderbar celebrating their 65th anniversary. C'mon.

not everyone wants morals and values. just sayin'

Go for the man, nothing is better than being with a man...they have what you need.

What or where is your "patch"?

i have yet to find one who has what i need.