I made some steaks out of Cliff last night...

Well unfortunately the double standard does exist (and I wish to hell it didn't), I lived through it with the ex wife and recently an ex girlfriend. I can tell you events that you'd say "what the hell" . Though you did give a less than fulfilling example. Sorry dude, that's just common sense. But hey I know when it's with the one you love... We need to be more like ants and live a little more each other than backstab each other and live strickly for our own wants no matter the cost. It's BS, who else sees this

simple they have what every straight guy wants....a vagina

Why would you have anything to do with anyone that told you what to do?

When your partner fails to stop and think of your feelings, it's already over.