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Topic: Then there was one…
gayfifer Joined Sat 04/04/09 Posts: 6655	Thu 07/02/09 05:25 PM
Sometimes the quite ones are the most passionate..."gushing" in the Forums can be the kiss of death... You should just come out & ask them... Oh, in private things are said that would make your insides turn to soup. But in public, things are said in a way that makes it impossible to know. This wouldn't be an issue if it were not for things I've seen and heard that make me wonder if it's really me or her. u mean u talk dirty,well i never! I said soup (as in warm and liquidy) not red-hot Texas chili. You perv!

alternativa Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 1085	Thu 07/02/09 05:27 PM
I know what you mean You??? I thought for sure you were with... uh... your twin. he's playing har to get And I thought him intelligent. He must be mental. You're funny and smart in the forums, have a great profile and are incredibly pretty. He's a fool. thanks I think he likes to be chased Hope he realizes that being "it" all the time isn't fun and sometimes you get tired of the same old game and need a new one to keep things interesting and keep you wanting to play.

patsfan64 Joined Fri 03/14/08 Posts: 1258	Thu 07/02/09 05:27 PM
Two men… You like them both. They both like you. They both have said nice things in the forums. One keeps things anonymous, so no one knows it’s for you. If he didn’t say so, most times YOU even wonder if they’re for you or someone else. The other is not so secretive. Nevermind, I think the choice just became clear. The choice is as obvious as a turd in a punch bowl if you ask me, which you did in a general forum kinda way.

alternativa Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 1085	Thu 07/02/09 05:29 PM
Sometimes the quite ones are the most passionate..."gushing" in the Forums can be the kiss of death... You should just come out & ask them... Oh, in private things are said that would make your insides turn to soup. But in public, things are said in a way that makes it impossible to know. This wouldn't be an issue if it were not for things I've seen and heard that make me wonder if it's really me or her. Forum flirting is just that...flirting. Until you get a definitive answer...I say just flirt back! Maybe they'll see this thread & get the courage to come out & say it??? Got it! Thanks.

alternativa Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 1085	Thu 07/02/09 05:30 PM
well nobody ever bloodywell flirts wi me like that! EVERYBODY flirts with you like that!

gayfifer Joined Sat 04/04/09 Posts: 6655	Thu 07/02/09 05:32 PM
well nobody ever bloodywell flirts wi me like that! EVERYBODY flirts with you like that!

alternativa Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 1085	Thu 07/02/09 05:32 PM
JMO: Go for the one that's ready to "shout it out there"..In my own personal experience on this dating site... the one that remains silent ..doesn't want any other women to "know". oooooooo i like the voice of experience Complete lack of tact or decorum is whats hip now? I had no idea. I am kind of laughing as I happily walk away from this scene.... been with too damned many women who use that same f*ked up strategy and act like they got no clue why sht went south on them. My words of advice... accept friendships for friendships... accept love...for love.... if it ain't an honest friendship...or an honest love...don't accept it. It is simply an aquaintance. This ain't rocket science. Again... EH??? Eric, please explain.

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Thu 07/02/09 05:33 PM
I know what you mean You??? I thought for sure you were with... uh... your twin. he's playing har to get And I thought him intelligent. He must be mental. You're funny and smart in the forums, have a great profile and are incredibly pretty. He's a fool. thanks I think he likes to be chased Hope he realizes that being "it" all the time isn't fun and sometimes you get tired of the same old game and need a new one to keep things interesting and keep you wanting to play. no worries i've got lots of games we can play

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 07/02/09 05:34 PM
Two men… You like them both. They both like you. They both have said nice things in the forums. One keeps things anonymous, so no one knows it’s for you. If he didn’t say so, most times YOU even wonder if they’re for you or someone else. The other is not so secretive. Nevermind, I think the choice just became clear. pick me

alternativa Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 1085	Thu 07/02/09 05:35 PM
Two men… You like them both. They both like you. They both have said nice things in the forums. One keeps things anonymous, so no one knows it’s for you. If he didn’t say so, most times YOU even wonder if they’re for you or someone else. The other is not so secretive. Nevermind, I think the choice just became clear. The choice is as obvious as a turd in a punch bowl if you ask me, which you did in a general forum kinda way. Yep... I caught it after I typed it out, but don't know how to "nevermind" it so I just went ahead and let it post. I'm still learning the posting things.

alternativa Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 1085	Thu 07/02/09 05:36 PM
I know what you mean You??? I thought for sure you were with... uh... your twin. he's playing har to get And I thought him intelligent. He must be mental. You're funny and smart in the forums, have a great profile and are incredibly pretty. He's a fool. thanks I think he likes to be chased Hope he realizes that being "it" all the time isn't fun and sometimes you get tired of the same old game and need a new one to keep things interesting and keep you wanting to play. no worries i've got lots of games we can play Ever seen the movie "13 Going on 30"? The scene were she goes with the man to his place to "play games"?

alternativa Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 1085	Thu 07/02/09 05:37 PM
Two men… You like them both. They both like you. They both have said nice things in the forums. One keeps things anonymous, so no one knows it’s for you. If he didn’t say so, most times YOU even wonder if they’re for you or someone else. The other is not so secretive. Nevermind, I think the choice just became clear. pick me Someone already picked you off the vine!

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Thu 07/02/09 05:38 PM
JMO: Go for the one that's ready to "shout it out there"..In my own personal experience on this dating site... the one that remains silent ..doesn't want any other women to "know". oooooooo i like the voice of experience Complete lack of tact or decorum is whats hip now? I had no idea. I am kind of laughing as I happily walk away from this scene.... been with too damned many women who use that same f*ked up strategy and act like they got no clue why sht went south on them. My words of advice... accept friendships for friendships... accept love...for love.... if it ain't an honest friendship...or an honest love...don't accept it. It is simply an aquaintance. This ain't rocket science. Again... EH??? Eric, please explain. Unless I am misreading something here...I am thinking that this is a side long shot at me. If I am mistaken, then I am relieved. If this is what I think it is...then I will be on my way.

alternativa Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 1085	Thu 07/02/09 05:43 PM
JMO: Go for the one that's ready to "shout it out there"..In my own personal experience on this dating site... the one that remains silent ..doesn't want any other women to "know". oooooooo i like the voice of experience Complete lack of tact or decorum is whats hip now? I had no idea. I am kind of laughing as I happily walk away from this scene.... been with too damned many women who use that same f*ked up strategy and act like they got no clue why sht went south on them. My words of advice... accept friendships for friendships... accept love...for love.... if it ain't an honest friendship...or an honest love...don't accept it. It is simply an aquaintance. This ain't rocket science. Again... EH??? Eric, please explain. Unless I am misreading something here...I am thinking that this is a side long shot at me. If I am mistaken, then I am relieved. If this is what I think it is...then I will be on my way. WTF?!? OMG!!! You know both of them, but it's not you. Goofy guy! We've talked about your interest. I know better than to allow myself to go there. My place is as your friend and I won't cross that line and lose that. I thought you knew me better than that.

gayfifer Joined Sat 04/04/09 Posts: 6655	Thu 07/02/09 05:45 PM
no it's me and i just wanna say i feel humiliated to have had this done in such a public manner

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Thu 07/02/09 05:48 PM
This is really good. Can I sit in the corner eat some chocolate and watch?

alternativa Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 1085	Thu 07/02/09 05:50 PM
no it's me and i just wanna say i feel humiliated to have had this done in such a public manner Well, they wouldn't have known it was you if you didn't just spill the beans! For the record everyone, it's NOT Ed, ok? Like anyone would believe that it was you! It's not anyone that's posted and even if that did happen, I wouldn't let it be known. It's obviously not my decision to make and I am not the type to make it for someone else. That's why I didn't use names.

Dan99 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 14941	Thu 07/02/09 05:50 PM
Is there a Carly Simon song playing in the background here! hahaha

alternativa Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 1085	Thu 07/02/09 05:53 PM
This is really good. Can I sit in the corner eat some chocolate and watch? Have any white or dark chocolate in there? I'm not one for sweets, but sometimes you just NEED chocolate. Enjoy the show.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 07/02/09 05:53 PM
It's obviously about me and I am heartbroken