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I'm with the OP. I am not impressed by friend collectors. I have deleted my name from people's friend lists who had hundreds of friends. I want my friendship to mean something to someone! I don't want to just be one of the many. I am selective about who I add to my list also. I don't accept every friend request that comes my way. My friends are people I talk to regularly. Well, those who I chat with, email with know that I'm friend with them, I rather think of the friends' list as a nice gesture, perhaps interested or like me somewhat, kinda like a first stepping stone. Works better than the "match with this person". |
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I also like having an equal amount of girlie friends to guy friends.
I like the women I have met on Mingle, and I don't necessarily want a big 'ol sausage-fest on my profile! ![]() I only add those that chat with me on the forums or that give a rat's azzzzz about how I am -- and that I care about their welfare as well. Willy-nilly friend adding is like drunk typing! Just say no! ![]() |
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most of my friends on here, i either talk to or have in the past , and if it was often in the past, but not lately i leave them on because ive had meaningful words with them and would like to in the future...other ones i weed through like every 6 months... humm reminds me its about due.. you know the ones that emailed 2 short emails and you never got to know them? those i take off...
thats just my reasonings, everyone has different reasons so honestly its none of no ones business how many friends you have or dont have... its your choice... |
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I also like having an equal amount of girlie friends to guy friends. I like the women I have met on Mingle, and I don't necessarily want a big 'ol sausage-fest on my profile! ![]() I only add those that chat with me on the forums or that give a rat's azzzzz about how I am -- and that I care about their welfare as well. Willy-nilly friend adding is like drunk typing! Just say no! ![]() I have to admit..I don't have a sausage fest on my profile..it's a different kind of a "fest"...although I do talk to guys here in emails about guns, politics and girls. |
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I also like having an equal amount of girlie friends to guy friends. I like the women I have met on Mingle, and I don't necessarily want a big 'ol sausage-fest on my profile! ![]() I only add those that chat with me on the forums or that give a rat's azzzzz about how I am -- and that I care about their welfare as well. Willy-nilly friend adding is like drunk typing! Just say no! ![]() Same here...I have a lot of girls as friends on my list. And I really value their friendships! |
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ps i dont think you have too many friends
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guns, politics and girls. Sounds like a party to me! ![]() |
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poof !!! im going deleting....
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ps i dont think you have too many friends ![]() ![]() Nahh..that wasn't the point..it doesn't really matter actually, it's not that i got too many compared to others, but some thinks it's too many. |
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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Tue 06/30/09 07:38 PM
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poof !!! im going deleting.... ![]() ![]() |
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poof !!! im going deleting.... ![]() ![]() Mitch, I have always been suspicious of your friends list. Let me see it NOW!!!! |
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ps i dont think you have too many friends ![]() ![]() Nahh..that wasn't the point..it doesn't really matter actually, it's not that i got too many compared to others, but some thinks it's too many. ![]() |
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they dont know and they are trying to control you already by suggesting you have too many friends?
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poof !!! im going deleting.... ![]() ![]() Mitch, I have always been suspicious of your friends list. Let me see it NOW!!!! No! And you can't make me. It's a secret because the list is too short. It's embarrassing. ![]() |
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No, don't do it, don't delete meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee..............
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poof !!! im going deleting.... ![]() ![]() Mitch, I have always been suspicious of your friends list. Let me see it NOW!!!! No! And you can't make me. It's a secret because the list is too short. It's embarrassing. ![]() I could make you. But I won't ![]() |
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ps i dont think you have too many friends ![]() ![]() Nahh..that wasn't the point..it doesn't really matter actually, it's not that i got too many compared to others, but some thinks it's too many. ![]() ![]() |
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Ok, how about "you've been here too long". Does that make me suspicious ? Mingle2 is unlike myspace or facebook, those aren't like having a discussion forum. Many people treat mingle2 like 'yahoo personals' or 'match.com'. Basically, some might think, hanging around too long on a dating site makes some think that I might be something like a 'social reject" ? Why worry so much about what others think? If you enjoy the site and the forums, stay. Don't worry about what someone says. |
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ps i dont think you have too many friends ![]() ![]() Nahh..that wasn't the point..it doesn't really matter actually, it's not that i got too many compared to others, but some thinks it's too many. ![]() ![]() I know how to view people's friends lists that are not showing. Easy peasy. |
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