| Topic: too many friends makes you suspicious | |
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      I get that sometimes from non-posters. According to some, if you got too many friends on mingle, you are some sort of a "player", or there is something wrong with you. 
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      I think they've never been to myspace.
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| I get that sometimes from non-posters. According to some, if you got too many friends on mingle, you are some sort of a "player", or there is something wrong with you. What do you think? Different strokes for different folks. | |
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      idc what ppl think...
 you do look kinda like gerard butler in ur new pic...even if u aren't smilin   | |
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      Couldn't they be just that.. friends?
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      Sound's like insecurity.
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| idc what ppl think... you do look kinda like gerard butler in ur new pic...even if u aren't smilin   lol..Is that a good thing or a bad thing? | |
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      some people just collect pictures regardless of whether they know em or not
 I get friends invites all the time from people I never heard of. They seem offended when I say no but all the friends on my profile really are friends | |
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      you say player like it is a bad thing...   | |
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| I get that sometimes from non-posters. According to some, if you got too many friends on mingle, you are some sort of a "player", or there is something wrong with you. What do you think?  I was robbed by a girl I met on here that had a lot of friends on her list   | |
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      It's funny.  I know of one site where I often see girls with a sign-up date of 2 or 3 days ago, and they have 1733 friends already.  Of course, I've never gotten a message or a friend request on THAT site that WASN'T from a scammer.
 I've never seen it as a "red flag" issue here, though. But then I've never seen anyone here who obtained 1733 friends in a few days, either. | |
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      i think they're just jealous!  friends just means you're social, nothing wrong with that! | |
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      Who cares what anyone says!
 Have one. Have thousands!! | |
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| idc what ppl think... you do look kinda like gerard butler in ur new pic...even if u aren't smilin   lol..Is that a good thing or a bad thing? what--that you look like gerard?? he is totally hawtttt.....   | |
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      pimpin aian't easy    | |
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      Ok, how about "you've been here too long".  Does that make me suspicious ? 
 Mingle2 is unlike myspace or facebook, those aren't like having a discussion forum. Many people treat mingle2 like 'yahoo personals' or 'match.com'. Basically, some might think, hanging around too long on a dating site makes some think that I might be something like a 'social reject" ? | |
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| I get that sometimes from non-posters. According to some, if you got too many friends on mingle, you are some sort of a "player", or there is something wrong with you. What do you think?  I was robbed by a girl I met on here that had a lot of friends on her list   Awww here's a big {{{{HUG}}} | |
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| Ok, how about "you've been here too long". Does that make me suspicious ? Mingle2 is unlike myspace or facebook, those aren't like having a discussion forum. Many people treat mingle2 like 'yahoo personals' or 'match.com'. Basically, some might think, hanging around too long on a dating site makes some think that I might be something like a 'social reject" ? well darlin that is exactly what I am...I live in the back woods like a hermit with my kids...and I don't have a problem with it... | |
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      i've been off and on since 12/07 so i guess i would belong in the land of forgotten toys then.      | |
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| It's funny. I know of one site where I often see girls with a sign-up date of 2 or 3 days ago, and they have 1733 friends already. Of course, I've never gotten a message or a friend request on THAT site that WASN'T from a scammer. I've never seen it as a "red flag" issue here, though. But then I've never seen anyone here who obtained 1733 friends in a few days, either.   | |
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