Topic: Woman cancels wedding after finding fiance was porn star
ThomasJB's photo
Tue 06/16/09 02:26 PM


Woman cancels wedding after finding fiance was porn star
A woman has cancelled her church wedding and country house reception after discovering her fiance is a secret porn star.


Published: 3:17PM BST 16 Jun 2009


Haylie Hocking, 27, only found out that strapping 30-year-old fitness fanatic Jason Brake made adult films just weeks before the big day.

A friend organising her hen night searched online for a male stripper and spotted Jason with a woman in a porn movie.

Now Haylie has called her vicar to cancel the wedding.

She said: "There was no way I could marry an adult film star."

The pair met last year when Jason became a customer at the garage where Haylie worked.

He told her he was a personal trainer and the couple began dating.

She told a magazine she found he was a romantic, thoughtful and passionate lover and six months after meeting he moved into her flat in Bristol.

Jason, who regularly bought her flowers and jewellery, often went away at weekends, telling her he was training clients in a gym.

After eight months, he proposed and bought her a diamond engagement ring.

But Jason's secret emerged when Haylie's friend Lisa tried to book a stripper for a hen party.

Lisa stumbled across a movie clip in which the male star looked like Jason.

Haylie checked the website - and realised it was Jason.

After he finally admitted he was earning money from making porn, she called off the wedding.

Haylie said: "I don't know if I will ever be able to trust a man again."

Jason said he started making occasional films as a sideline before meeting Haylie.

He said: "The sex side is purely for the camera, but Haylie did not understand I was only acting.

"I am sorry and did not want to hurt her. I still love Haylie and would have stopped doing porn if she had asked me to."

He added that he would be honest with women in future relationships.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/5549158/Woman-cancels-wedding-after-finding-fiance-was-porn-star.html

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 06/16/09 02:28 PM
proof that you should not jump the gun in relationships and slow down. moving in together after 6 mos??? 8 mos getting engaged?

no photo
Tue 06/16/09 02:31 PM
added that he would be honest in future relationships? does that sound wrong or is it just me?

ThomasJB's photo
Tue 06/16/09 02:34 PM

added that he would be honest in future relationships? does that sound wrong or is it just me?


One wonders if the only reason he said that is because he got caught. When did he plan to tell her anyway?

no photo
Tue 06/16/09 02:36 PM
ill bet its probably why he said that, scapegoat statement whoa

adj4u's photo
Tue 06/16/09 02:41 PM
so it is ok to watch porn

but not ok to make porn

if he would quit upon request

what is the big deal

unless he lied to her about it

it does not change who he is

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as for honest in the future

could mean he is going to tell them straight away


no photo
Tue 06/16/09 02:43 PM
"I still love Haylie and would have stopped doing porn if she had asked me to."
How stupid is this??? If she didn't know, she couldn't know to ask him to stop, could she???? frustrated frustrated frustrated rant rant rant


lonetar25's photo
Tue 06/16/09 02:45 PM
Edited by lonetar25 on Tue 06/16/09 02:46 PM
my ex felt that way too:wink:

adj4u's photo
Tue 06/16/09 02:49 PM

"I still love Haylie and would have stopped doing porn if she had asked me to."
How stupid is this??? If she didn't know, she couldn't know to ask him to stop, could she???? frustrated frustrated frustrated rant rant rant




well if he continued after the wedding that would have been adultery

and he could be doing porn for her

:wink: laugh laugh laugh laugh

willing2's photo
Tue 06/16/09 03:05 PM
Edited by willing2 on Tue 06/16/09 03:11 PM
At least he had a job.devil :banana: devil

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 06/16/09 03:07 PM
after going on 2 dates with a guy that turned out to be a registered sex offender....I do my research

scttrbrain's photo
Tue 06/16/09 09:22 PM
He wouldnt have anything to do porn with after I got through with him.huh grumble rant

Kat

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 06/16/09 09:25 PM

He wouldnt have anything to do porn with after I got through with him.huh grumble rant

Kat


do I hear a Bobbit???? laugh

Atlantis75's photo
Tue 06/16/09 09:28 PM

At least he had a job.devil :banana: devil


lol..yeah the economy!! I bet he made more money having sex with women as a 9 to 5 job, than me working my a$$ off and being single.