I have been on several single sites and one of the most common complaints from female members where are all the nice guys,well ladies I will tell you where all the nice guys are sometimes they are right under your noses,from what I have read in a lot of your profiles is that you seem to not only want a nice guy, but he also has to meet certain physical parameters,make a certain amount of money and I don't think they are being very realistic when it comes to searching for a partner on the internet,there are tons of nice guys on here,you just have to give them a chance and not be so hung up on what a man makes or model looks truth we all have flaws,we all have a few bad habits,one other thing when you account all the single men verses all the single woman,woman out number men in general,and when you start accounting for single men the gap becomes greater.

Yay! This thread couldn't have come at a better time!

Anyone have popcorn? I'm all out...

Since you are new I'll let this one slide..

All I have to say is this....

Men do it too. What a darn shame.

Edit: I just got here......did not know this was the theme of the day. Yippee!

I happen to have a huge bag of unpopped kernels.

Awwww, shut up and blow me ya biotches.... Who needs a nice guy?


What did one of you say about a chocolate penis that ejaculates money?

Oh thank god, the man bashing threads were far outweighing nice guy threads lately.

I said that it was a woman's best friend, Loo dear...

Why is it that nice guys always finish last? So let's look into it with a deeper perspective. We all like being around nice people when it comes to friends and family but why doesn’t it work when it comes to relationships? Why are nice guys always taken for granted? Learn some of the major reasons why women hate nice guys and what measures can be taken to stay away from that "Nice guy" image.

Well the definition of a nice guy is different when you ask a woman. According to females nice guy defines a person who is insecure, always seeks approval, has a strong need to be wanted and loved, always acts as a yes man, desperate and they tend to over do almost everything.

Insecure- Now not all nice men might be insecure but most of them are when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex. Nice guys are so insecure about their want for attention that they lose it all eventually. No woman prefers an insecure guy.

Seeking approval- Oh boy here's the age old story again! Have you ever come across a guy who always asks for approval in other words always needs an opinion for whether he is right or wrong? This is a common feature in almost all those so called "Nice men" out there.

They always need love- Women are known to be more emotional than men but sometimes men act like women and become cry babies. They always seek love and attention from the opposite sex. They would do almost anything on this planet and fall to any levels to get it.

She's always right- This is what those nice guys think about the women they're with. No female prefers a "Yes man". They all prefer guys who have strong beliefs and opinions and who know how to stand up tall and rise to the occasion.

The desperate act- Don't you think "Nice men" look desperate sometimes? Most nice men find it hard to say what's on their minds and mostly fall into the desperation zone. And once you get the "Desperate tag" It's very hard to get out of it.

Now it does not mean that you have to act like a jerk to get female attention. Women do not like jerks either. You do not want to fall into the "Bad boy" zone. Women dislike bad guys more than they hate nice men.

Now you see what they're after OP!!!!

And how does that make you feel?

Hmmm...now where the hell did you copy & paste that from, Mayhem?

You should save that to notepad for the next time.... It'll save a lot of typing....

Tiny violins and cheese at the ready. Who's bringing the cake and crying clowns?

Sorry if this seems harsh (especially for someone new here) but it's been done to death and basically it boils down to everyone has their preferences, that's just life and we all have to deal with it.

My bad...I thought the website was at the bottom of the article. heres were I got it.

http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Pushpa_Pal_Singh

If anybody ever does find a nice guy could you ask him to stop by and rewire my cable? It's too flipping hot up in the attic and I don't wanna do it.

I find it revealing that women never post a thread asking where all the Arrogant Narcissistic Conceited Jerks are.....

One might almost get the impression that women aren't interested in them....

aww ffs not again!