Topic: Out of Race Relationship?
wanttachat's photo
Mon 05/14/07 09:23 PM
Ok..... 1 race..... HUMAN

PinkyStar's photo
Mon 05/14/07 09:24 PM
Bibby7 why are you hateing on people. Who is racist? You better not be
meaning me or my home girl sexy lady on wheels.

Trizar's photo
Mon 05/14/07 09:24 PM
sorry i am off topic.. he can do that all the time.. race should be no
barrier for love!!!!!!!

PinkyStar's photo
Mon 05/14/07 09:25 PM
So what if joe is a jesus freak whats wrong with that I am and i am
poroud of it.

DJ_Osiris's photo
Mon 05/14/07 09:26 PM
Love is blind and family acceptence should be without boundries.

There are two ways to go about things when it comes to this :

A: Run away, cut ties off with your family and let you love lead the way

B: Prove to them just how happy you are and that he/she is just as good
as any other person if not better.

Personally, I prefer the latter.

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Mon 05/14/07 09:31 PM
Veronica Wrote: "Of course it's an issue. There are all sorts of
implications...religious, societal. And what of the possible children
born from this union? Bi-racial children often don't fit into either
world.

These are not racial issues more than common sense issues.

There is more to consider in a situation like this than is he/she cute."
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Its only an issue if you let it be. I do have a few family members who
aren't racist, and because of them i have the most beautiful little
cousin and the most beautiful neice and nephew who happen to be
biracial. NONE OF US ARE ONLY ONE COLOR! When will we all understand
that?

ITS JUST SKIN, WE DO NO TAKE IT WITH US WHEN WE LEAVE THIS EARTH SO
OBVIOUSLY OUR CREATOR DONT' CARE EITHER!!!

When the bible (for those of you who DO follow it, I don't) the part
that says something about 'staying with your own race' doesn't mean
skin, it means don't go F**KING ANIMALS!!

no photo
Mon 05/14/07 09:32 PM
Amen to that my friend:)

Dave2722's photo
Mon 05/14/07 09:32 PM
Some people can be so shallow minded that they just cant see the forest
for the trees... Sexylady, follow your heart !!!

chris87's photo
Mon 05/14/07 09:33 PM
well i would tell my family memebers to deal wit it cause its my life
not theres so they would just have to deal wit it.

mtironroses's photo
Mon 05/14/07 09:33 PM
:heart: love to all man kind:heart: ..........no matter to race, or
relgion,.. we are all one

Trizar's photo
Mon 05/14/07 09:34 PM
roflmao jamya laugh laugh

rivergirl301's photo
Mon 05/14/07 09:34 PM
What decade are you living in? I am in the year 2007. Biracial? Try
triracial, quadriracial. And why don't these people fit into either
world? Because of the bigots. These bigots will understand we will not
allow their hatred to keep us from living our lives and bringing
children into families out of love.

"Bi-racial children often don't fit into either
world."

veronica218's photo
Mon 05/14/07 09:46 PM
All of this is fine...love whom you choose. Bigotry be damned.

But people get out there and work with these kids as I do every day and
tell me that there they do not suffer from identity crises.

My point of view is neither racist, biblical or smothered with warm
fuzzies as it appears most here are. My point of view is purely from a
sociological aspect that it appears no one cares about.

Check facts before you decide that I am living in some 70s dream world.
These children are more likely to end in foster care and 30% less likely
to be adopted.

no photo
Mon 05/14/07 09:47 PM
the way I see it, if the two people love each other, and they know that
they are in love, they should be abel to live their own lifes, with no
one getting in the way. if everyone stop worrying about other people and
start worrying about their self, the world would be a better place for
everyone.

no photo
Mon 05/14/07 09:53 PM
not only would the world be a better place, the world would be full of
love for each other. then this dumb thing about hateing each other,
would die away. Then we would be able to see the love that everyone have
inside of themselves.

PinkyStar's photo
Mon 05/14/07 09:56 PM
I agree wit you:heart:

veronica218's photo
Mon 05/14/07 09:59 PM
I wonder if anyone here realizes that I am not disagreeing with the
concept of interracial unions. I am just stating that there are many
things to consider beside whether Mom and Dad are going to hate him/her.

Personally I have had a long term relationship with someone of another
race and religion.

My issue is purely about societal and psychological implications
regarding children of interracial unions.

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Mon 05/14/07 10:02 PM
I did just check my facts and the highest % of children in foster care
are hispanic.

I do know that my family takes care of their kids and if you're smart
about it, which my aunt is with my cousin, and my sister with my niece
and nephew, they will not lose their identity.

We teach them that they are not just black and they are not just white.
They are both, and both are beautiful.

My oldest nephew who lives with me is Mexican/Native American/White
mulitracial. He knows what he is made of and he knows that all of those
things are beautiful and special. Its NOT the color that the child
comes out, but the way you raise them. If you raise a biracial child
with only one race, yes, they will probably lose their identity.
However, if you make sure (even if you're a single parent) that you
expose your child to different cultures and races from birth, and teach
them where they come from they will turn out just fine. I've seen it
done very successfully

bobbyblue's photo
Mon 05/14/07 10:06 PM
If your love is right the kids shouldn't be the issue. You will train
them down the moral road.

veronica218's photo
Mon 05/14/07 10:06 PM
No doubt you are right.

I am only using my own experiences from my job.

The reference to Bi-racial in the foster care system was meant in
relation to children of either race versus children who are of mixed
race.

Kudos to your family.