Topic: Out of Race Relationship? | |
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Ok..... 1 race..... HUMAN
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Bibby7 why are you hateing on people. Who is racist? You better not be
meaning me or my home girl sexy lady on wheels. |
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sorry i am off topic.. he can do that all the time.. race should be no
barrier for love!!!!!!! |
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So what if joe is a jesus freak whats wrong with that I am and i am
poroud of it. |
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Love is blind and family acceptence should be without boundries.
There are two ways to go about things when it comes to this : A: Run away, cut ties off with your family and let you love lead the way B: Prove to them just how happy you are and that he/she is just as good as any other person if not better. Personally, I prefer the latter. |
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Veronica Wrote: "Of course it's an issue. There are all sorts of
implications...religious, societal. And what of the possible children born from this union? Bi-racial children often don't fit into either world. These are not racial issues more than common sense issues. There is more to consider in a situation like this than is he/she cute." _____________ Its only an issue if you let it be. I do have a few family members who aren't racist, and because of them i have the most beautiful little cousin and the most beautiful neice and nephew who happen to be biracial. NONE OF US ARE ONLY ONE COLOR! When will we all understand that? ITS JUST SKIN, WE DO NO TAKE IT WITH US WHEN WE LEAVE THIS EARTH SO OBVIOUSLY OUR CREATOR DONT' CARE EITHER!!! When the bible (for those of you who DO follow it, I don't) the part that says something about 'staying with your own race' doesn't mean skin, it means don't go F**KING ANIMALS!! |
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Amen to that my friend:)
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Some people can be so shallow minded that they just cant see the forest
for the trees... Sexylady, follow your heart !!! |
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well i would tell my family memebers to deal wit it cause its my life
not theres so they would just have to deal wit it. |
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love to all man kind ..........no matter to race, or
relgion,.. we are all one |
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roflmao jamya
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What decade are you living in? I am in the year 2007. Biracial? Try
triracial, quadriracial. And why don't these people fit into either world? Because of the bigots. These bigots will understand we will not allow their hatred to keep us from living our lives and bringing children into families out of love. "Bi-racial children often don't fit into either world." |
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All of this is fine...love whom you choose. Bigotry be damned.
But people get out there and work with these kids as I do every day and tell me that there they do not suffer from identity crises. My point of view is neither racist, biblical or smothered with warm fuzzies as it appears most here are. My point of view is purely from a sociological aspect that it appears no one cares about. Check facts before you decide that I am living in some 70s dream world. These children are more likely to end in foster care and 30% less likely to be adopted. |
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the way I see it, if the two people love each other, and they know that
they are in love, they should be abel to live their own lifes, with no one getting in the way. if everyone stop worrying about other people and start worrying about their self, the world would be a better place for everyone. |
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not only would the world be a better place, the world would be full of
love for each other. then this dumb thing about hateing each other, would die away. Then we would be able to see the love that everyone have inside of themselves. |
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I agree wit you
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I wonder if anyone here realizes that I am not disagreeing with the
concept of interracial unions. I am just stating that there are many things to consider beside whether Mom and Dad are going to hate him/her. Personally I have had a long term relationship with someone of another race and religion. My issue is purely about societal and psychological implications regarding children of interracial unions. |
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I did just check my facts and the highest % of children in foster care
are hispanic. I do know that my family takes care of their kids and if you're smart about it, which my aunt is with my cousin, and my sister with my niece and nephew, they will not lose their identity. We teach them that they are not just black and they are not just white. They are both, and both are beautiful. My oldest nephew who lives with me is Mexican/Native American/White mulitracial. He knows what he is made of and he knows that all of those things are beautiful and special. Its NOT the color that the child comes out, but the way you raise them. If you raise a biracial child with only one race, yes, they will probably lose their identity. However, if you make sure (even if you're a single parent) that you expose your child to different cultures and races from birth, and teach them where they come from they will turn out just fine. I've seen it done very successfully |
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If your love is right the kids shouldn't be the issue. You will train
them down the moral road. |
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No doubt you are right.
I am only using my own experiences from my job. The reference to Bi-racial in the foster care system was meant in relation to children of either race versus children who are of mixed race. Kudos to your family. |
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