I'm dating this guy for several months-and he tells me he "likes" me, and then weeks later he follows with telling me I'm "special". What is he really trying to tell me? If he cares about me -or even loves me, why not just say it? Or is he saying-he doesn't care, just to keep me around?

First off, why are you asking a bunch of strangers? I think you should be asking him his defination of "like" and "special". For all you know he just might be defining Special as in Short bus special. Part of moving towards a real relationsip is communicating with the other person. If his defination of those words are not to your liking, you might have to rethink your relationship with him. Or maybe hes shy and like and special are a big leap for him and soon it might be love that he is saying. Talk to him.

in my point of view, he's taking it slow, and easy, not rushing things, and feeling it out. i could be wrong, but that's how i feel. talk never hurts either.

short bus?

hell i like you and your special can we move in together

some people throw around words like love or hate too often these days. maybe he means it when he says it and is waiting to make sure he means it. sometimes it takes more than several months to know for sure

I just don't know. Too little information.

I think hes just saying he likes you, and thinks your special.

most the ppl here cant keep a relationship going if you have noticed this is a dating site so i think you are asking the wrong ppl 90%of us have been divorced 100 time

Are you having sex with him?? It might be that its good enough for the "I like you your special" but not the "OMG I Freakin Love you" sex..... yanno?? and if theres no sex... stop wasting your time and go get yourself some.....

He likes you and thinks your special... look no further..

Why look deeper into to it??

Freakin A dude! Straight up and to the point LOL

thats what i thought still no answer is it becayse im ugly i just dont know what ill do if im ugly

I definitely agree with this. Only cuz I have been in the same situation before.

No sir. I'm sure you're an attractive man. It's just that I'm a dude! LOL

How the f should I know?!

Only because they aren't doing it right. And personally, I would say "most" is an overstatement.



It is?? Gee, there are many people who sign up here simply for friends and forums, and have absolutely no intention of "dating". It's only a "dating" site if that's what YOU'RE here for. Please don't assume to speak for everybody on the site.



Many people here have, indeed, been divorced. Others have been widowed. Others have never been married. Others still have never even been on a date! Your percentage is rather high.

Maybe he is waiting until he is sure... "I love you" is something you can't take back!!

tell him to fok off u don't 'like' him and he's not 'special'

probably he just want to get in your panties