Quite right, Number Six!

The funny thing about this forum is that everyone that got mad or offended by the challenge post is exactly the type of people mentioned,instead of admtting theyre problem they lash out and try to break down the guy that posted the comment instead of having a actual conversation/debate..im neither the nice guy or the jerk but this forum proves to me that this is not a dating problem it is a mental/social problem that people have im society..we place shallow wants over whats needed,what we know is good..its like a person that inflicts pain on oneself because they like the feeling eventhough ultimately its going to do damage in the long run..thus we have singles in theyre mid 40's trying to settle down too late in the game..it is what it is im just pointing it out..

You are a young Hottie, Lilith....on the outside.....an intelligent, thought provoking woman on the inside. (based on my observations)


Not that you require any validation from ddn122........

men that lash out at intelligent women are intimidated by these women. the lashing out and verbal insults are a last ditch defense mechanisim. some men cannot handle the fact that some women are smarter than them. so they lash out,to try and intimidate. be seeing you

I read the OP and maybe Lil can explain to me what exactly the challenge is? I don't get it? What are we trying to do here? Get laid by being "nice"?

Well, it was my observation that another member had posted his opinion, which was in disagreement with the OP's. Go back to page one.

Within that, he berated said member for being on the site, and he is as well. So I look at his profile and I make some observations of my own.

That was how it went down for me. As was also berated for having an opinion. Then I was called older and fat. He looked at my profile too. Oh, and he was, umm, fibbing... and said he was only here for the forums. Looky look at his profile. I suppose I should be sorry I did not let him whine and talk about superficials... this is clearly a post only if you agree thread. I did not get the memo.

So there is no challenge, only whining? Gee, I was looking for something to do today and whining was not on the list.

TB I am only offering my opinion, of course. But alas, I saw this as a whining thread. A looks thread...

i can spot a prick a mile away too

Exactly. And for the guys sucking up to some woman you're never going to meet and is never going to sleep with you, shame on you. Having a loudmouth objection isn't being intelligent.

And no, I'm not on here to meet anyone. When you say "I'm just on here for the forums" they tell you to say something else or add something else. If I were on here to meet someone, I'd put up a picture and say something about myself.

And to the guy saying to be a jerk, if you want immature, insecure women, then you're right, being the jerk will work.

What I was saying, like I said in another thread, is that I used to like women strictly for their sex appeal, much like a lot of you at an older age, still like men and women for pure sex appeal. I desire women now that are somewhat attractive, but nice people.

I concur. :-)

what the hell!!!! nice guy, bad guy, ya both end up outa luck in the long run, for the good guy does finnish LOST, YES LOST!, and the bad guy gets hunted by me eventually and caught, or eventually gets himself shot by a nice guy for screwing his wife


moral...be yourself!!!!, create your own magnetism, for you have the ability, and follow your brain and heart equally!!!!



nuff said!!!! please refer to this post in future references of nice guy bad guy threads!!!!!!!...


damn......I'M A WILD AND CARAZZZY GUY!!!!!

I compleatly agree with the idea of being yourself. That means you don't take any BS from a woman that you wouldn't take from a man.

I say I'm a jerk because that's how nice guys see me when I'm out chattting up ladies. I'm making them laugh, I'm poking fun at them and I'm taking them to a dark corner and kissing them. Nice guys see this and think I'm treating these women poorly, but the women LOVE it. If they didn't they'd leave me alone right? They wouldn't be making out with me in a dark corner would they?

When a nice guy calls me a jerk or ass hole it's just jealousy. It's him wondering why I get the girl when he makes more money, has a cooler car and house, is younger and better looking than me. His trouble is he tries to hide his sexuality, as if there's something wrong with being sexual. He tries to buy women with gifts, dinners, flowers and the promace of an easy lifestyle. Women can smell his desperation and it gives them the creeps. The nicer he is the more it creeps out women!

All a man has to do is realize that there are plenty of women that will find him attractive and interesting, but he has to talk to ten that don't like him for every one he finds that does.

Guys, it's Saturday. Go out tonight and talk to 10 differant women and at least one will like you enough to see you again. Don't buy them any drinks! And don't drink too muyourself. Just have fun with them and keep in mind that you will screw up the first few. After that it will be so easy you will wonder why you weren't doing it all along.

I was taking this thread semi serious until you said that. Now there is nothing you could say that I would take serious

That's okay, Robin, I don't put any credence in anyone who is 25 years old and thinks they have all the answers.