Topic: Problem with making a match.
Shocktart09's photo
Tue 06/02/09 10:25 AM
I viewed my profile and it tells me that there is one person who wants to meet me, but it doesn't tell me who it is. Do I just wait for the person to message me again?

redhead44613's photo
Tue 06/02/09 10:57 AM
devil :laughing: it should be the people who have viewed your profile.

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Tue 06/02/09 10:59 AM

I viewed my profile and it tells me that there is one person who wants to meet me, but it doesn't tell me who it is. Do I just wait for the person to message me again?

They don't tell you outright. From the link in the email, you click and it brings up profiles for you to yes/no/maybe. If you hit yes/maybe on one who yes/maybe'd you, it'll show up in your mutual matches section. If you hit no on the one who wanted a yes, he/she won't be in your Mutual Matches.
I don't know why they do it this way.

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Tue 06/02/09 06:44 PM

devil :laughing: it should be the people who have viewed your profile.


Not if they are in Stealth Mode.

EZ4Sheezy's photo
Tue 06/02/09 10:30 PM


I viewed my profile and it tells me that there is one person who wants to meet me, but it doesn't tell me who it is. Do I just wait for the person to message me again?

They don't tell you outright. From the link in the email, you click and it brings up profiles for you to yes/no/maybe. If you hit yes/maybe on one who yes/maybe'd you, it'll show up in your mutual matches section. If you hit no on the one who wanted a yes, he/she won't be in your Mutual Matches.
I don't know why they do it this way.


also, this person who is interested will be the first one to pop up in the yes/no/maybe list.

Shocktart09's photo
Tue 06/02/09 11:58 PM


devil :laughing: it should be the people who have viewed your profile.


Not if they are in Stealth Mode.


lol

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Wed 06/03/09 03:06 PM
Ive had a couple of MMs, that when you send them a message after a mutual match alert comes up....they are clueless as to who you are. I think its Mingles way of trying to set you up with someone.


TM

charles's photo
Wed 06/03/09 07:46 PM
Welcome to the site, Shocktart09.

To build off of the replies above, you'll have to rate others on Mutual Match to see if you can learn the identity of the women who said "Yes" or "Maybe" to your profile. If you select "Maybe" or "Yes" to any lady who has selected one of those two options for you, then you will find out who she is. We do this so that the other's decision does not influence yours (as much as possible, anyway).

Here is the page where you can do this, and you can reach it from your Account Home:
http://mingle2.com/mutual_match/find_matches