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Topic: How can you tell....
one4me2's photo
Tue 06/02/09 05:07 PM
If a guy really likes you or just wants to get laid? I recently spent an entire week of 1-1/2 hour long telephone conversations (never brought up the sex topic) only to meet, have a nice dinner and some kissing and cuddling afterwards to the next day being told he "drove a long way for nothing"!!!!! I'm so tired of playing games and want to find someone to have a real relationship with. Everyone I meet seems to have an agenda. I'm about to become one of those women with a bunch of pets for company! PLEASE HELP!!!!!explode

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 06/02/09 05:08 PM
huh

moonlight_ride62's photo
Tue 06/02/09 05:08 PM

If a guy really likes you or just wants to get laid? I recently spent an entire week of 1-1/2 hour long telephone conversations (never brought up the sex topic) only to meet, have a nice dinner and some kissing and cuddling afterwards to the next day being told he "drove a long way for nothing"!!!!! I'm so tired of playing games and want to find someone to have a real relationship with. Everyone I meet seems to have an agenda. I'm about to become one of those women with a bunch of pets for company! PLEASE HELP!!!!!explode


the more I learn about men the better I am liking my horse...

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Tue 06/02/09 05:09 PM
What kind of pets do you like?bigsmile

one4me2's photo
Tue 06/02/09 05:10 PM
Exactly.... on all responses!!!!

MeChrissy2's photo
Tue 06/02/09 05:10 PM
I love pets.flowerforyou

Don't let a few rotten apples spoil the bunch. Once you find the one for you, the other don't matter.:wink:

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 06/02/09 05:11 PM
flowerforyou A guy can like you AND want to get laid at the same time.flowerforyouThat guy was kind of a jerk for saying that to you though.flowerforyou

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Tue 06/02/09 05:11 PM


If a guy really likes you or just wants to get laid? I recently spent an entire week of 1-1/2 hour long telephone conversations (never brought up the sex topic) only to meet, have a nice dinner and some kissing and cuddling afterwards to the next day being told he "drove a long way for nothing"!!!!! I'm so tired of playing games and want to find someone to have a real relationship with. Everyone I meet seems to have an agenda. I'm about to become one of those women with a bunch of pets for company! PLEASE HELP!!!!!explode


the more I learn about men the better I am liking my horse...

eewwwww, beastiality


but then you can truley say your lover is hung like a horse...lol

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Tue 06/02/09 05:12 PM
I think you meet up with a real A-dam H-enry.
Sorry. You will find someone who is really a nice guy, just hang in there.
Ducks make good pets though.:laughing:

one4me2's photo
Tue 06/02/09 05:15 PM
I signed up on match for 6 months and I could write a freakin' book on the men I've encountered!!!!! One brought me a turnip for a first time gift!!!!! LOL It's a joke with my friends on every date I have anymore! One guy cried and asked me if i thought he was ugly when i told him I wasnt interested!! GOD help me for being lonely!


cottonelle's photo
Tue 06/02/09 05:17 PM
go dike and eat fish

one4me2's photo
Tue 06/02/09 05:18 PM
No can do. Not into the taco bar!

one4me2's photo
Tue 06/02/09 05:18 PM
And your Avi really freaks me the hell out!!!!

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Tue 06/02/09 05:19 PM

I signed up on match for 6 months and I could write a freakin' book on the men I've encountered!!!!! One brought me a turnip for a first time gift!!!!! LOL It's a joke with my friends on every date I have anymore! One guy cried and asked me if i thought he was ugly when i told him I wasnt interested!! GOD help me for being lonely!



Maybe you should send the crybaby a duck.laugh

moonlight_ride62's photo
Tue 06/02/09 05:20 PM



If a guy really likes you or just wants to get laid? I recently spent an entire week of 1-1/2 hour long telephone conversations (never brought up the sex topic) only to meet, have a nice dinner and some kissing and cuddling afterwards to the next day being told he "drove a long way for nothing"!!!!! I'm so tired of playing games and want to find someone to have a real relationship with. Everyone I meet seems to have an agenda. I'm about to become one of those women with a bunch of pets for company! PLEASE HELP!!!!!explode





the more I learn about men the better I am liking my horse...

eewwwww, beastiality


but then you can truley say your lover is hung like a horse...lol



hey I love my horse way too much to ruin our relationship with sex

one4me2's photo
Tue 06/02/09 05:21 PM
That's how I feel about my dog! LOL

nvkikigirl's photo
Tue 06/02/09 05:22 PM
Edited by nvkikigirl on Tue 06/02/09 05:23 PM

If a guy really likes you or just wants to get laid? I recently spent an entire week of 1-1/2 hour long telephone conversations (never brought up the sex topic) only to meet, have a nice dinner and some kissing and cuddling afterwards to the next day being told he "drove a long way for nothing"!!!!! I'm so tired of playing games and want to find someone to have a real relationship with. Everyone I meet seems to have an agenda. I'm about to become one of those women with a bunch of pets for company! PLEASE HELP!!!!!explode



Sorry that happened to you. There are cool guys out there, sometimes it just takes a while to find them. And to answer your question, I have no clue how to tell. frustrated


Aries151's photo
Tue 06/02/09 05:23 PM
Well it's not easy as you may find a nice guy, or you may find a not so nice guy who can fake being nice for a little while. It's hard to tell over the phone honestly, you would have to hang out with him in person to get any kind of indication / warning flags.

Mr_Music's photo
Tue 06/02/09 05:27 PM
A guy like that is known as a player. You're better off kicking him to the curb. A true gentleman would not entertain the subject of sex until such time when it was a mutual interest.

By the same token, I see this complaint from women constantly. The common denominator in every instance is you. Try raising your standards as to what kind of men you want to date. Don't keep dating the same kind of guys and expect different results.

one4me2's photo
Tue 06/02/09 05:34 PM
I can honestly say I don't think I have dated the same type of man twice in the last six months. This guy honestly didn't seem like a player in my book. I would like to know how to know they are players. Why would a player spend that much time on the phone with me and not even have a hint of sexual anything in the conversation??? I think they would get a feel for how much I would put out on a first date before they would drive over an hour to meet me!

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