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That really ticks me. You see I have hard time seeing - that waiting for the feeling to be there before deciding to tell that person what you feel. It has to be inherently there first before it is actually be recognized by the faculty of your own mind to make sense of it. Feelings is not something like a plant that need to be watered and nurtured. It's already there before you have concieved it! Haven't you ever felt a feeling that you questioned? Have you ever thought you were in love and then realized you weren't? Do you want to tell everyone you date for a few weeks that you love them because one night you felt something really special? Why do you get ticked at what others do that is not being done to you? |
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 This is like a cross between Wrestlemania,Saturday Night Live,and the Playboy Channel
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Not until you got here hun
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This is like a cross between Wrestlemania,Saturday Night Live,and the Playboy Channel
Don't forget those Barney Miller reruns!
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Edited by
Winx
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Tue 06/02/09 12:16 AM
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That really ticks me. You see I have hard time seeing - that waiting for the feeling to be there before deciding to tell that person what you feel. It has to be inherently there first before it is actually be recognized by the faculty of your own mind to make sense of it. Feelings is not something like a plant that need to be watered and nurtured. It's already there before you have concieved it! The issue is that it can be confused with lust and/or infatuation. They are strong feelings and both affect chemicals in the brain. They are so strong that they can be confused with the feeling of love. It takes time to get past the stage of lust and/or infatuation. It takes time for love to develop and be nurtured. Love isn't an instantaneous feeling. Lust and infatuation are instant feelings. Love takes time to develop. The same can be talked about with hate and anger. They are strong feelings too. |
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This is like a cross between Wrestlemania,Saturday Night Live,and the Playboy Channel
Don't forget those Barney Miller reruns!
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That really ticks me. You see I have hard time seeing - that waiting for the feeling to be there before deciding to tell that person what you feel. It has to be inherently there first before it is actually be recognized by the faculty of your own mind to make sense of it. Feelings is not something like a plant that need to be watered and nurtured. It's already there before you have concieved it! The issue is that it can be confused with lust and/or infatuation. They are strong feelings and both affect chemicals in the brain. They are so strong that they can be confused with the feeling of love. It takes time to get past the stage of lust and/or infatuation. It takes time for love to develop and be nurtured. Love isn't an instantaneous feeling. Lust and infatuation are instant feelings. Love takes time to develop. The same can be talked about with hate and anger. They are strong feelings too. Game. Set. Match.
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Not until you got here hun ...
 You inspired me about the Playboy part
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This is like a cross between Wrestlemania,Saturday Night Live,and the Playboy Channel
Don't forget those Barney Miller reruns!
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Not until you got here hun ...
You inspired me about the Playboy part
  I love ya but not in the same way your girl loves ya.. I don't want my butt kicked... 
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Not until you got here hun ...
You inspired me about the Playboy part
I love ya but not in the same way your girl loves ya.. I don't want my butt kicked...
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Edited by
Thoughtfulthug
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Tue 06/02/09 12:35 AM
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Trust me. I took my time to response to your quote. It is not because I percieve it to be your pretension to be accurate or anything, but I want to make clear of you have obviously made completely unclear.
I am a laser beam. You are a flashlight. The former loves to penetrate precisely where the mark is, while the latter seems to be trying to go on about seeing, once again, the "woods for the trees." LOL That really ticks me. You see I have hard time seeing - that waiting for the feeling to be there before deciding to tell that person what you feel. It has to be inherently there first before it is actually be recognized by the faculty of your own mind to make sense of it. Feelings is not something like a plant that need to be watered and nurtured. It's already there before you have concieved it! Haven't you ever felt a feeling that you questioned?
Yes or no. I am not sure what you mean. If you mean "questioned" as by scrutinizing it, then no because that would deny the feel of the feelings. Have you ever thought you were in love and then realized you weren't? I don't decieve myself of what love is actually is.
Do you want to tell everyone you date for a few weeks that you love them because one night you felt something really special? Not everyone. Kinda a strange premise to say everyone I'd dated and then go on about seeing if I had one night of feeling that I love them all. That is impossible.
Why do you get ticked at what others do that is not being done to you?
Maybe I don't go on about being a victim of past failures. I don't know your life history, but...
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 There can be only one
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I am the sun and you are the stars
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That really ticks me. You see I have hard time seeing - that waiting for the feeling to be there before deciding to tell that person what you feel. It has to be inherently there first before it is actually be recognized by the faculty of your own mind to make sense of it. Feelings is not something like a plant that need to be watered and nurtured. It's already there before you have concieved it! The issue is that it can be confused with lust and/or infatuation. They are strong feelings and both affect chemicals in the brain. They are so strong that they can be confused with the feeling of love. It takes time to get past the stage of lust and/or infatuation. It takes time for love to develop and be nurtured. Love isn't an instantaneous feeling. Lust and infatuation are instant feelings. Love takes time to develop. The same can be talked about with hate and anger. They are strong feelings too. |
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I am the sun and you are the stars
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 I wish this planet was more like Endor,home of the Ewoks
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I am the sun and you are the stars
 You are the wind and I am the leaves
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Trust me. I took my time to response to your quote. It is not because I percieve it to be your pretension to be accurate or anything, but I want to make clear of you have obviously made completely unclear. I am a laser beam. You are a flashlight. The former loves to penetrate precisely where the mark is, while the latter seems to be trying to go on about seeing, once again, the "woods for the trees." LOL That really ticks me. You see I have hard time seeing - that waiting for the feeling to be there before deciding to tell that person what you feel. It has to be inherently there first before it is actually be recognized by the faculty of your own mind to make sense of it. Feelings is not something like a plant that need to be watered and nurtured. It's already there before you have concieved it! Haven't you ever felt a feeling that you questioned?
Yes or no. I am not sure what you mean. If you mean "questioned" as by scrutinizing it, then no because that would deny the feel of the feelings. Have you ever thought you were in love and then realized you weren't? I don't decieve myself of what love is actually is.
Do you want to tell everyone you date for a few weeks that you love them because one night you felt something really special? Not everyone. Kinda a strange premise to say everyone I'd dated and then go on about seeing if I had one night of feeling that I love them all. That is impossible.
Why do you get ticked at what others do that is not being done to you?
Maybe I don't go on about being a victim of past failures. I don't know your life history, but...
Ok you want to go there again? I was really asking sincerely to see your point of view.. Obviously you're not capable of a decent conversation if someone doesn't agree with you but has their own way of thinking.. I was not saying EVERYONE you dated... I would hope one wouldn't feel those feeelings for every person they dated... You're a laser of nothing except talking in circles thinking you're smarter than you are.. Even proven wrong you keep going like one of those annoying wind up toys... Who's asking anyone to go on about being a victim of past failures? Why must failures have a victim? I've not been a victim of anything.. I take responsibility for my actions and I guard my feelings closely so that I do not hurt others... I prefer to take my time to get to know someone and see what's there.. I may really really like them, but I don't ever want to confuse lust and infatuation for love THAT is why I do not jump to use those words.. |
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