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hahahaaaaaaaaaaa this is funny!!!!
De bait!!! Man posturing at its best..... SOMEBODY NEEDS TO GET LAID!!! |
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hahahaaaaaaaaaaa this is funny!!!! De bait!!! Man posturing at its best..... SOMEBODY NEEDS TO GET LAID!!! |
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If you want to have a honest relationship with someone doesn't that require being honest about the feelings you have? Telling someone you love them is relative to how both of you define love. Unfortuneately the word is pretty generic and means many different things to people. Seems wise to me to give a relationship enough time to know how the person you have feelings for defines it? What would seem more important is do you know how the person will react to you having such serious feelings? Just because you have a feeling doesn't require that you share it. So maybe instead of using the word love, you (in a general sense) can describe what you're feeling in detail. Because that is a good point, the word love means different things to different people. |
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Don't we all Gypsy
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I love you........
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I have to say I do agree partly/mostly/whatever with Thug. Go with how you feel. Don't over think it. If you love someone right now, for what and who they are, then you love them. They could later change and you may end up falling out of love with them consequently. Or maybe some big dark secret that will come out that will change how you feel about them. But the "what if" is no reason to keep such a strong feeling and emotion to yourself. Those situations happen to people in 25 year long marriages all the time. Things just happen. Life just happens. And it doesn't change how you felt once upon a time, or make those past feelings any less valid.
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I think people should do what they're comfortable with.. If that means going with it then fine... If it means waiting until they feel they're sure, then fine too.. What works for one person may not work for another and there isn't anything wrong with that...
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I love you!!!
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I love you but I've waited until I was sure to tell you...
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I love you but I've waited until I was sure to tell you... Uh oh. Don't tell me Gyp and Prncs got one of them homogenized relationships goin' now???!!! |
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I love you but I've waited until I was sure to tell you... Uh oh. Don't tell me Gyp and Prncs got one of them homogenized relationships goin' now???!!! |
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Edited by
Thoughtfulthug
on
Tue 06/02/09 12:07 AM
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That really ticks me. You see I have hard time seeing - that waiting for the feeling to be there before deciding to tell that person what you feel. It has to be inherently there first before it is actually be recognized by the faculty of your own mind to make sense of it. Feelings is not something like a plant that need to be watered and nurtured. It's already there before you have concieved it!
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I love you but I've waited until I was sure to tell you... Uh oh. Don't tell me Gyp and Prncs got one of them homogenized relationships goin' now???!!! fo' shizzle.. |
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That really ticks me. You see I have hard time seeing that waiting for the feeling to be there before deciding to tell that person what you feel. It has to be inherently there first before it is actually be recognized by the faculty of your own mind to make sense of it. Feelings is not something like a plant that need to be watered and nurtured. It's already there before you have concieved it! |
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I love you but I've waited until I was sure to tell you... Uh oh. Don't tell me Gyp and Prncs got one of them homogenized relationships goin' now???!!! fo' shizzle.. Fo' shizzle indeed! |
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I love you but I've waited until I was sure to tell you... Uh oh. Don't tell me Gyp and Prncs got one of them homogenized relationships goin' now???!!! fo' shizzle.. |
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Fo' shizzle!
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I'm back
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it's too soon.
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I'm back |
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