Topic: Totally Vulnerable
MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 05/14/09 03:53 PM


true. and here is why.. if you are guarded about things then your with holding a possible difference that sooner or later will rear its ugly head. And if your vulnerable you are open to new and fresh ideas. ( for the men here that could mean for those who have the fantasy of 3 women in bed at once) And for the women? well not sure what their fantasy would be.. besides you have to open yourself to all possibilities and that includes being able to find love.



lollipops for everyone.


but at first i was this way with my grilfriend and now she uses that as her ammo. but she is having my kid so i have to stay around and be a father she is three months
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misstina2's photo
Thu 05/14/09 04:21 PM
:heart: one must risk ones heart:heart:

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 05/14/09 04:37 PM

:heart: one must risk ones heart:heart:
flowerforyou

cityblues21's photo
Thu 05/14/09 05:00 PM
True love = vulnerabile = trust

If one cannot trust their significant other with their vulnerabilities... really no point in seeking "true love".

no photo
Thu 05/14/09 05:04 PM

:heart: True love requires that we be totally vulnerable to another.:heart:


bigsmile True or False?bigsmile


True... without opening yourself up and being vulnerable, how can you really know your heart and let in the love?

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 05/15/09 11:33 AM

True love = vulnerabile = trust

If one cannot trust their significant other with their vulnerabilities... really no point in seeking "true love".

flowerforyou

no photo
Fri 05/15/09 11:35 AM

:heart: True love requires that we be totally vulnerable to another.:heart:


bigsmile True or False?bigsmile
NO!!! I refuse to let go of my vulnerability. Its MINE!!!bigsmile drinker

Eddiemma's photo
Fri 05/15/09 12:09 PM

True love = vulnerabile = trust

If one cannot trust their significant other with their vulnerabilities... really no point in seeking "true love".


I agreebiggrin

no photo
Fri 05/15/09 12:10 PM
I'd rather be naked.......laugh

Eddiemma's photo
Fri 05/15/09 12:17 PM

I'd rather be naked.......laugh


I don't believe you..:heart:

ArtGurl's photo
Fri 05/15/09 12:20 PM




I trust myself enough to handle whatever happens ... open heart ... it is the only way to live ...

AGoodGuy1026's photo
Fri 05/15/09 12:26 PM
drinker drinks True...frown drinks drinker

dawnyhi's photo
Fri 05/15/09 12:38 PM
I just noticed that the more volnerable I am the more I attract the wrong kind (they use my volnerability against me) and it leads for them to think they must fix me or show me how to lead my life. Or they slack off and I end up doing more than my share.... I would rather build a relationship based on our strengths and build it from there... start out independantly able to live on your own and then be able to share equally... I am not doing volnerablility anymore... maybe spell check..

SirQuixote's photo
Fri 05/15/09 12:41 PM
If totally accessable means totally vulnerable, TRUE. One can be open and accessable and still have defenses such as verification, deterance and retribution.

no photo
Fri 05/15/09 12:46 PM
True and that is why many of us, including myself, will never experience true love. After being burned so many times there's no way I'm going to put myself in a position to be crushed yet again.

Eddiemma's photo
Fri 05/15/09 12:47 PM





I trust myself enough to handle whatever happens ... open heart ... it is the only way to live ...


Ahhh!

no photo
Fri 05/15/09 03:26 PM
flowerforyou ... I'm ALL in ... :heart: :banana: :banana: :heart:

metalwing's photo
Fri 05/15/09 03:34 PM
I saw this in an old movie about 1965. "Sinbad the Sailor"

Trust in Allah but tie up your camel.

Bi_CurizGrl's photo
Fri 05/15/09 04:22 PM
true...if you can't be vulnerable then you cannot show all of yourself to that person...that is how it can break your heart, if you've been vulnerable and then it doesn't work out.... brokenheart

s1owhand's photo
Fri 05/15/09 04:26 PM

:heart: True love requires that we be totally vulnerable to another.:heart:


bigsmile True or False?bigsmile


In true love there are no barriers. You depend on each other.
Completely. Yes, it is total vulnerability. Only way to be.
Don't be a WUSS.

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