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Topic: a question for you men
JasmineInglewood Joined Wed 11/28/07 Posts: 4447	Thu 05/07/09 11:50 PM
Personally I dont think the bye I love you's count!!! I like my I love you's to be looooooooong and drawn out!!! well that made me feel a little better it didn't count people!! thanks gyps

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 05/07/09 11:51 PM Edited by Gypsy41 on Thu 05/07/09 11:56 PM
Personally I dont think the bye I love you's count!!! I like my I love you's to be looooooooong and drawn out!!! well that made me feel a little better it didn't count people!! thanks gyps It never counts until the fat lady sings babe!!!

JasmineInglewood Joined Wed 11/28/07 Posts: 4447	Thu 05/07/09 11:53 PM
i asked because this was exactly what i said to my boyfriend last night after he said he loved me for the first time... i had to get off the phone to go study so we were saying goodbye, and out of the blue he said "bye, i love you" and i said "ok, bye" and hung up... and then about 10 full seconds later i caught myself and was like "oh sh!t... wtf" i mean you would not be asking this question if he did this to you. you would be calling him all sort of ass names right now lol.... that is kinda funny though lol. its like watching a movie. poor guy lol honestly, as i said, if a guy did that to me i wouldn't take it so seriously that he didn't say it back. i really wouldn't. it would change nothing about how feel about him.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 05/07/09 11:57 PM
Im thinking that jasmine would be doing the " I love you's" looooooong and drawn out whilst looking into his eyes and he in turn will be watching the football game!!

jhjhl Joined Sat 05/02/09 Posts: 48	Fri 05/08/09 12:00 AM Edited by jhjhl on Fri 05/08/09 12:01 AM
i asked because this was exactly what i said to my boyfriend last night after he said he loved me for the first time... i had to get off the phone to go study so we were saying goodbye, and out of the blue he said "bye, i love you" and i said "ok, bye" and hung up... and then about 10 full seconds later i caught myself and was like "oh sh!t... wtf" i mean you would not be asking this question if he did this to you. you would be calling him all sort of ass names right now lol.... that is kinda funny though lol. its like watching a movie. poor guy lol honestly, as i said, if a guy did that to me i wouldn't take it so seriously that he didn't say it back. i really wouldn't. it would change nothing about how feel about him. yeah but it hurt and you still love that person no matter what... it doesn't mean the guy wouldn't love you back but guys have different mentality. i mean maybe am wrong but the odds are maybe 70% 30%... If any men were to be honest with you; this is ground for a big fight and its ground for a restart(if they are willing to stick around because now it would be all weird for him). we are different though. maybe he is so in love and cant live without you and would just take it like you said. he shouldnt have said that without knowing how you stand though... but hey he is very courageous

JasmineInglewood Joined Wed 11/28/07 Posts: 4447	Fri 05/08/09 12:01 AM
my first "i love you"'s are done strictly via a quick text message i'm about as romantic as a stroke .

jhjhl Joined Sat 05/02/09 Posts: 48	Fri 05/08/09 12:03 AM
my first "i love you"'s are done strictly via a quick text message i'm about as romantic as a stroke . lol thats a good way to do it though...

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Fri 05/08/09 12:04 AM
my first "i love you"'s are done strictly via a quick text message i'm about as romantic as a stroke . I usually just blurt it out while drinking an entire bottle of red wine!!! fdshjkfdsahjfdsakhjfdsakfdakjdfsa damn truth serum!!!

JasmineInglewood Joined Wed 11/28/07 Posts: 4447	Fri 05/08/09 12:05 AM
my first "i love you"'s are done strictly via a quick text message i'm about as romantic as a stroke . lol thats a good way to do it though... yay me!!

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Fri 05/08/09 12:09 AM
WEll IF THATS THE CASE YOU BOTH SHOULD WATCH THIS...... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XcidD2HFK8M

jhjhl Joined Sat 05/02/09 Posts: 48	Fri 05/08/09 12:15 AM
WEll IF THATS THE CASE YOU BOTH SHOULD WATCH THIS...... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XcidD2HFK8M the dinner table was funny.. but hey.. saying i love you in a text message doesn't make it sound really creepy most people say it and it all blurs in the cool things to say to your friends... it lives it open

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Fri 05/08/09 12:20 AM
omg text message breakup!!! You didnt watch the entire thing??

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Fri 05/08/09 12:21 AM
WEll IF THATS THE CASE YOU BOTH SHOULD WATCH THIS...... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XcidD2HFK8M the dinner table was funny.. but hey.. saying i love you in a text message doesn't make it sound really creepy most people say it and it all blurs in the cool things to say to your friends... it lives it open text message I love you's dont count for the first I love you. I will give you negative 900 points for that!@@

jhjhl Joined Sat 05/02/09 Posts: 48	Fri 05/08/09 12:24 AM
WEll IF THATS THE CASE YOU BOTH SHOULD WATCH THIS...... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XcidD2HFK8M the dinner table was funny.. but hey.. saying i love you in a text message doesn't make it sound really creepy most people say it and it all blurs in the cool things to say to your friends... it lives it open text message I love you's dont count for the first I love you. I will give you negative 900 points for that!@@ that is harch... well you are right but i would personally not say the monkey sht love you thing unless you come frwrd w it... i would just play it safe it i like you and don't wanna freak you out if i am not sure. now its a different story if i know you love me.

JasmineInglewood Joined Wed 11/28/07 Posts: 4447	Fri 05/08/09 12:26 AM
WEll IF THATS THE CASE YOU BOTH SHOULD WATCH THIS...... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XcidD2HFK8M the dinner table was funny.. but hey.. saying i love you in a text message doesn't make it sound really creepy most people say it and it all blurs in the cool things to say to your friends... it lives it open text message I love you's dont count for the first I love you. I will give you negative 900 points for that!@@ heyyy my man jhjhl over here says they count!!

jhjhl Joined Sat 05/02/09 Posts: 48	Fri 05/08/09 12:29 AM
WEll IF THATS THE CASE YOU BOTH SHOULD WATCH THIS...... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XcidD2HFK8M the dinner table was funny.. but hey.. saying i love you in a text message doesn't make it sound really creepy most people say it and it all blurs in the cool things to say to your friends... it lives it open text message I love you's dont count for the first I love you. I will give you negative 900 points for that!@@ heyyy my man jhjhl over here says they count!! they have got to count lol... see what hapnd to to your bf? that is scary lol

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Fri 05/08/09 12:30 AM
Oh and those I luv you's doing count either!!! Sooooooooo lame!!

JasmineInglewood Joined Wed 11/28/07 Posts: 4447	Fri 05/08/09 12:34 AM
nothing happened to him! you guys are too sensitive that's what i think

jhjhl Joined Sat 05/02/09 Posts: 48	Fri 05/08/09 12:35 AM
Oh and those I luv you's doing count either!!! Sooooooooo lame!! are there any other guys here? the ladies are winning... how can it be fair? i mean i say i love you and i get "ok bye" but a text is not acceptable... i say it or not... am stuck. so either say it in a lame but not too serious way or dont say it.. what do you women propose? how do you want to be told?

jhjhl Joined Sat 05/02/09 Posts: 48	Fri 05/08/09 12:37 AM
nothing happened to him! you guys are too sensitive that's what i think i mean we have got to approch you and do all the tricky part and put ourselves out there and get rejected and just move on and keep looking till we get the right one that actually like us and then ... i mean none of it is right unless you play it the hard way which is not to be an as but kind in the middle... just be a nice ass lol