Topic: Set Them Free
IndnPrncs's photo
Mon 05/04/09 12:09 AM


I think.........if we love someone.......we cant hold them back....... and we shouldnt if we love them truly.

If it is reciprocated.......and they come back........is that love????? Yes and No. Some people yes and some no. Some come back because they love you. They others come back because they have no where else to go!!


Spoken like a true co-dependent, Gypsy. laugh



hmmmmmmm more like one that knows them.... :wink:

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Mon 05/04/09 12:10 AM


I think.........if we love someone.......we cant hold them back....... and we shouldnt if we love them truly.

If it is reciprocated.......and they come back........is that love????? Yes and No. Some people yes and some no. Some come back because they love you. They others come back because they have no where else to go!!


Spoken like a true co-dependent, Gypsy. laugh
Didnt I tell you to get back in your box!!!rant laugh

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Mon 05/04/09 12:11 AM



I think.........if we love someone.......we cant hold them back....... and we shouldnt if we love them truly.

If it is reciprocated.......and they come back........is that love????? Yes and No. Some people yes and some no. Some come back because they love you. They others come back because they have no where else to go!!


Spoken like a true co-dependent, Gypsy. laugh
Didnt I tell you to get back in your box!!!rant laugh


You gonna change into a different mu-mu, Gypsy? laugh

chevylover1965's photo
Mon 05/04/09 12:25 AM
all women should burn their bra's and set them puppys free !pitchfork :banana: laugh

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Mon 05/04/09 12:26 AM
Edited by moofooga on Mon 05/04/09 12:31 AM
Dern tootin', Chev! The wimmins should set them puppies free! laugh

chevylover1965's photo
Mon 05/04/09 12:30 AM
Edited by chevylover1965 on Mon 05/04/09 12:30 AM
huh moof, i wonder about you some time's .....huh

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Mon 05/04/09 12:32 AM
I was referring to the wimmins, Chevski. You got too much Chevy on the brain! laugh

DragonFlyTat's photo
Mon 05/04/09 06:05 AM

I think it's another one of those cliches that sounds good, or looks good on a poster with a picture of a butterfly or whatever; but as a practical matter, when I set them free, it's because I'm either bored to death, or tired of the domestication attempts, and I don't WANT them back.
Amen Lex! You got that right. When it is over, it's over!

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Mon 05/04/09 06:35 AM


I think it's another one of those cliches that sounds good, or looks good on a poster with a picture of a butterfly or whatever; but as a practical matter, when I set them free, it's because I'm either bored to death, or tired of the domestication attempts, and I don't WANT them back.
Amen Lex! You got that right. When it is over, it's over!


Exactly. And that's why I'm the world's leading expert on 3-month relationships. Everybody is good at something.


LiilKiSSForYA's photo
Wed 05/06/09 11:54 PM
I don't really believe it
They were free all along
I never owned them.

vortecpowered's photo
Thu 05/07/09 10:01 PM

:heart:How many of you believe in the whole "If you love someone set them free,and if they come back they are yours" idea?:heart:

bigsmile Do you think it's just words to make it easier to move on?bigsmile


it's a big load of crap just like most expressions

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 05/08/09 05:17 PM

I don't really believe it
They were free all along
I never owned them.

flowerforyou

NtheWind's photo
Fri 05/08/09 05:25 PM
Edited by NtheWind on Fri 05/08/09 05:28 PM
oops

Cinderella75's photo
Fri 05/08/09 05:30 PM
Edited by Cinderella75 on Fri 05/08/09 05:32 PM

:heart:How many of you believe in the whole "If you love someone set them free,and if they come back they are yours" idea?:heart:

bigsmile Do you think it's just words to make it easier to move on?bigsmile


I think there is quite some truth to that saying.
You usually don't hear that saying unless one person is not as commited in the relationship. Especially once you have exhausted all your options, and you still feel that they are not that interested.

So best thing is to let it go for a while..move on.
If they really care about you, they will come back, if not you didn't waste your time on someone that was never "yours" figuratively speaking, in the first place.

metalwing's photo
Fri 05/08/09 06:06 PM
They train elephants by staking their foot to the ground with a chain. The elephant struggles and struggles. Eventually he/she gives up. Thereafter the elephant only needs to tied with a small rope because the elephant has lost the will to struggle against the restraint.

galendgirl's photo
Fri 05/08/09 06:14 PM
Edited by galendgirl on Fri 05/08/09 06:14 PM

They train elephants by staking their foot to the ground with a chain. The elephant struggles and struggles. Eventually he/she gives up. Thereafter the elephant only needs to tied with a small rope because the elephant has lost the will to struggle against the restraint.


Given that such a scenario sounds like a really crummy way to have a relationship, I say "let them go free" long before they forget they can fly... If they don't want to be there...bye!

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 05/08/09 06:16 PM
You can't make someone love you nor can you make anyone stay that does not want to be there.

Therefore if they are not happy let them go.........

Loyaldad08's photo
Sat 05/09/09 07:29 PM
Another saying written by a loser -

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 05/11/09 04:21 AM

Another saying written by a loser -
laugh

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Mon 05/11/09 06:59 PM
Hmmm. Doesn't this saying kinda tie back in with the one that says "You don't know what you've got till it's gone"? Let them go, move on with your life and when they come back on their knees begging - you can either try again or keep on moving. I believe in second chances but the third time is not the charm.