Alot of girls dont realize this but most guys are really sensative even
though they dont show it all the time, they too dont want to be hurt.
they dont like to be rejected, they just get picky to keep there
emotiosn and ego's in tackt

Ok, Lionsbrew I understand u now...lol...Sorry that I missed put u.

Men are picky because women are misunderstandingly mean alot..WILL

Im picky because I dont wont a woman who bounces from bed to bed or has
alot of droma in her life I'm into long term relationships therefore
must be picky if she is not committed to the relationship I dont have
time for her.

I have to agree with everybody being a bit picky. We might all have to
agree that an initial physical attraction usually gets things going but
after that for me its strictly respect. You can love anyone but respects
is a lot harder to attain. Once you cross the line of respect its very
hard to get it back. Sort of trying to get the wrinkles out of a piece
of paper. Not only being unfaithful but talking to your better half the
way you DONT talk to a stranger. Once you say and do certain things its
sort of like a snowball going downhill. Hard to stop. Respect is a two
way street and thats my pickyness if I have any. By the way, guys (and
some girls) if you feel like letting your hands fly because you are mad,
please go find someone that can give it back. You dont bring them into
the world,you dont hit them.

well as far as me i have prefrences concerning females who i can and
cannot be with if see has ever had a train ran on her or slept with a
lot of guys like shes trying to be a porno star or something i cant be
with her cus that shit is nasty and some girl dont have respect for them
selfs

your wrong if there picky thats telling you exactly what they want

We all are picky when it comes down looking for the right person. You
just don't want to date anyone.

I TOTALLY AGREE

gotta be picky you know specially when you have little ones ...you dont
want your kids learning the wrong things...i know i think about how a
girl reacts around my son he is still young and very impressionable
...and i think we all want to find someone who is like minded.

Shallow men are picky because of the peer pressure from their male (and
female) friends. No man wants to be laughed at by their friends. If you
don't believe me, ask a teenage boy. It stemmed from that period of time
in a man's life, I am sure.

Remember, the most fragile thing in the world is the male ego.