my x let her boyfriend drive my child wile he is on morphine she was in the car and she could have drove.so what would you do or say to the court or the mom.
ps it was a 2 hour drive

To me it sounds like a form of child abuse. She apparently had no concern for the child's welfare let alone her own. A 2 hr drive? Man, anything could have happened. I certainly would let the court know about it.

Be gla they are alive

sorry forgot the d

Kill her!!!!!

My ex is in prison for this. He went in when my son was 7 and won't get out until he is 19. (he is only 13) And I had to split custody for two years. I called the cops many, many times when he had my son. Eventually he lost all parental rights.

she does this stuff and i tell the court and they act like she is a good mom.her last boyfriend drove with no driver's license.his roommate was with a tether under house arrest for dating a teenage girl.and my 8 year old ask me why. why must some one deal with this

Morphine????

Holy Sh it!!!!!

I wasn't allowed to leave until a ride picked me up when they used morphine. So she picks him up and is supposed to be his ride and then lets him drive...

Did no one at where ever he was given morphine actually explain things to her?

Assuming he was actually administered it properly....

John, how do you know this? Did your ex tell you willingly? Did the boyfriend?

I know you are frustrated and feel out of control with regard to your daughter, but all you can do is report it along with the rest of the garbage.

Keep written records. I did for two years. I know from experience that it is tough and frustrating, but time will tell the truth. I documented everything. And I don't use the word everything loosely.

I know it is tough. I can say this because I lived it. Hell, I went as far as getting fake I.D.'s for me and my kids to leave the country. It is awful. So trust me when I say: Time and Patience. I know it sux now, but it will pay off in the long run.

i should call the cops but to again they like to blow it off.one should not have to work so hard to get this done.almost 5 years i have had to deal with now boyfriend no 7.and yea she gets them off the internet.

yep she told me he takes it for pain i saw him drive up in the car my daughter was asleep in the back.he gets surgery on his back 28 of this month.i wanted to rip him out of the car and beat his a## and oh i could. he called my employer and told them he seen me at a party 5 hours away and to have me tested. my employer told him look buddy you are not the only boyfriend that has tried this. my hr told him to get a life/ he tried to shake my hand i told him back off in court or i will catch a case. after that they had 3 sheriffs.he now will not look me in the eyes

yea i keep my cool. my friends say keep it cool i am glad that you know what i am talking about.

Its not a form of child abuse, that just idiotic.

What it is, is illegal, and irresponsible.

As far as her telling you what he does and has said he does that is hearsay. You almost have to drug test him or get her to testify to his behavior and see him take the pain medication. If she denies it there is nothing the court will do. You will need to obtain actual evidence that he was driving under the influence. Getting pulled over for a dui with your child in the car should do it. but anything short of that will be tough