Hello everyone, There is this guy that stay in my area and I want to ask him do he have a girlfriend. I was always told that don't go after a man, but let him come to you. Even though you don't know if the person is interested in you or not, but sometimes I want to make the first move. I was scare of rejection, but I want to get pass that. In away I don't think there is something wrong with the woman if she decide she want to go up to the guy and try to get to know him. I just believe it is how you come to the person. I don't mean any harm, sometimes I think men are to slow. Can you please give me your advice please? Thank You.

Theres nothin wrong with making the first move....the worst thing that can happen is that he isnt available...so at least plan out wat u r gonna say if that is the case.

sometimes guys are shy just as women are.. nothing wrong with striking up conversation with the guy. good luck

I ask him and he said he don't have a girlfriend, but he do have a real close friend. He ask me did I have a boyfriend and I gave him my anwser. That was the end of the conversation and I believe he was busy. I don't feel bad if he have someone in his life, because I will get over it. Life goes on and there are a lot more men out there. This is teaching me not to be afraid of rejection. There is nothing wrong with asking man a out.

Good for you!

Flash him....men are visual....right lilith?????

Totally....

I like it when women flash me.