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Topic: Arrrgggghhhhh
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Fri 04/17/09 10:29 AM

Example:
I work hard and play hard, I think it's important to stay fit. I'm very passionate and sexual. I'm pretty laid back and just like to have fun. Not interested in drama or baggage. Message me if you're interested in chatting. Hit me up.


Here is the reality:
He works out three hours a day, six days a week and works 60 hours a week at his job. He gets drunk every Saturday night at nightclubs filled with women ten to fifteen years his junior, because no way should he settle for a woman his own age. He shaves around his genitalia to make his package appear larger, and he gives oral only in anticipation of receiving it. If he does receive it, he will grab your hair and hold your head until you gag so he can feel like a 'big man'.


Dear Lilith - You hit the nail on the-dare I say it...head laugh laugh
too funny

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Fri 04/17/09 10:30 AM
Edited by lilith401 on Fri 04/17/09 10:31 AM

Dear Lilith - You hit the nail on the-dare I say it...head laugh laugh
too funny


I see others have also spoken to this "man" group? laugh There are so many of them!


Brian, If it goes forward I'll let you know how it went. You said NO tongue?

Why go?:cry:

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 04/17/09 10:30 AM

For some reason I went through my mutual matches... (Pats, I KNOW!!!)

All I can say is this:

If you describe yourself as laid back..... when I meet you or talk to you I learn this means LAZY.

If you describe yourself as easy going..... when I meet you or talk to you I learn this means APATHETIC.

If you describe yourself as a nice guy...... when I meet you or talk to you I learn this means resentful, you give with the expectations of receiving (as in everything is quid pro quo), and you are anything but nice.

So, dudes, STOP trying to describe yourself in terms as specific as as mud and learn who you are...


Venting over!!!!!!

By the way, please feel free to vent about the drama and stuff in the ladies profiles... laugh
:tongue: I am going to make threads about every person that emails me:tongue: Feel free to email me for more informationbigsmile

s1owhand's photo
Fri 04/17/09 10:36 AM
find out who people are by how they intereact, not
by what they say in any profile description...

if they don't seem too pablum, pathetic, desperate,
angry, icky etc. and if their interests seem ummmm interesting
and they have intelligent, stimulating, provocative, humorous,
talented contributions in the discussions i read...

then, i interact with them a little and see how it goes
but i try to keep my distance for the most part for
obvious friendly reasons...

flowerforyou

i never take what is written in the profile too seriously

drinker

therapy30's photo
Fri 04/17/09 10:40 AM

Example:
I work hard and play hard, I think it's important to stay fit. I'm very passionate and sexual. I'm pretty laid back and just like to have fun. Not interested in drama or baggage. Message me if you're interested in chatting. Hit me up.


Here is the reality:
He works out three hours a day, six days a week and works 60 hours a week at his job. He gets drunk every Saturday night at nightclubs filled with women ten to fifteen years his junior, because no way should he settle for a woman his own age. He shaves around his genitalia to make his package appear larger, and he gives oral only in anticipation of receiving it. If he does receive it, he will grab your hair and hold your head until you gag so he can feel like a 'big man'.


Hey lilithwaving Which novel you are reading now a days ?

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Fri 04/17/09 11:05 AM


Fair enough - but how do you react if you're on the receiving end? And I'm not talking about honest, poignant questions. I'm talking about the careless "honest and direct" caustic or biting comments.


What are you talking about?


Sorry - PEBKAC error - was replying to a sub-thread and blew it.

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Fri 04/17/09 11:08 AM

For some reason I went through my mutual matches... (Pats, I KNOW!!!)

All I can say is this:

If you describe yourself as laid back..... when I meet you or talk to you I learn this means LAZY.

If you describe yourself as easy going..... when I meet you or talk to you I learn this means APATHETIC.

If you describe yourself as a nice guy...... when I meet you or talk to you I learn this means resentful, you give with the expectations of receiving (as in everything is quid pro quo), and you are anything but nice.

So, dudes, STOP trying to describe yourself in terms as specific as as mud and learn who you are...


Venting over!!!!!!

By the way, please feel free to vent about the drama and stuff in the ladies profiles... laugh


When Lilith vents, I get turned on!:tongue: laugh laugh

You read my profile, and everything in it is totally....TOTALLY....flase.....but feel free to believe me anyways.:tongue: laugh

lilith401's photo
Fri 04/17/09 12:48 PM
Goof, hey there stranger!

I'm out for the count... have a great weekend, all!

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Fri 04/17/09 12:51 PM

find out who people are by how they intereact, not
by what they say in any profile description...

if they don't seem too pablum, pathetic, desperate,
angry, icky etc. and if their interests seem ummmm interesting
and they have intelligent, stimulating, provocative, humorous,
talented contributions in the discussions i read...

then, i interact with them a little and see how it goes
but i try to keep my distance for the most part for
obvious friendly reasons...

flowerforyou

i never take what is written in the profile too seriously

drinker



Hahahahaha! I sooooo can respect a man who is confident enough to use the word "icky"...here's to you! drinker

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Fri 04/17/09 12:52 PM
Edited by feralcatlady on Fri 04/17/09 12:53 PM
My only advise......go to shelter and get the cutest lil dog you can find and go to the dog park, or park, and stop dating on line.

EZ4Sheezy's photo
Fri 04/17/09 05:02 PM

flowerforyou looking for no dramaflowerforyou


Yeah, that's the one I hate to see: "drama" and "games"

And "no one night stands" either.

There's an expression for people who have to defend themselves like this: The bitten dog yells.

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Mon 04/20/09 10:23 AM

My only advise......go to shelter and get the cutest lil dog you can find and go to the dog park, or park, and stop dating on line.


Can't have dogs, dear Deb... got two cats though.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 04/20/09 10:27 AM
Dubz world let it rock............


:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

prisoner's photo
Mon 04/20/09 10:31 AM

For some reason I went through my mutual matches... (Pats, I KNOW!!!)

All I can say is this:

If you describe yourself as laid back..... when I meet you or talk to you I learn this means LAZY.

If you describe yourself as easy going..... when I meet you or talk to you I learn this means APATHETIC.

If you describe yourself as a nice guy...... when I meet you or talk to you I learn this means resentful, you give with the expectations of receiving (as in everything is quid pro quo), and you are anything but nice.

So, dudes, STOP trying to describe yourself in terms as specific as as mud and learn who you are...


Venting over!!!!!!

By the way, please feel free to vent about the drama and stuff in the ladies profiles... laugh
:smile: i'm totaly apathetic to this post be seeing you

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Mon 04/20/09 10:50 AM


For some reason I went through my mutual matches... (Pats, I KNOW!!!)

All I can say is this:

If you describe yourself as laid back..... when I meet you or talk to you I learn this means LAZY.

If you describe yourself as easy going..... when I meet you or talk to you I learn this means APATHETIC.

If you describe yourself as a nice guy...... when I meet you or talk to you I learn this means resentful, you give with the expectations of receiving (as in everything is quid pro quo), and you are anything but nice.

So, dudes, STOP trying to describe yourself in terms as specific as as mud and learn who you are...


Venting over!!!!!!

By the way, please feel free to vent about the drama and stuff in the ladies profiles... laugh
:smile: i'm totaly apathetic to this post be seeing you


apathetic Main Entry: ap·a·thet·ic
Pronunciation: \ˌa-pə-ˈthe-tik\
Function: adjective
Date: 1744
1 : having or showing little or no feeling or emotion : spiritless
2 : having little or no interest or concern : indifferent

if I was truly apathetic about something I wouldn't even go to the bother of posting because that requires effort...but that's me.:wink:

lilith401's photo
Mon 04/20/09 11:18 AM
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

I was thinking that when I read it... I don't post to threads about which I'm apathetic....

michiganman3's photo
Mon 04/20/09 11:53 AM
Edited by michiganman3 on Mon 04/20/09 11:53 AM
http://www.livescience.com/health/070212_speed_date.html


An article about 'Why Online dating Sucks"

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