Topic: Can't locate those that are interested in Mutual Matches
ken1224's photo
Fri 04/03/09 04:32 AM
Edited by ken1224 on Fri 04/03/09 04:34 AM
Pretty new to this site.

I noticed in the mutual matches window that there were some who were interested in meeting me yet when I click on the window...nothing.

Advise?

Gossipmpm's photo
Fri 04/03/09 04:49 AM
Welcome

markc48's photo
Fri 04/03/09 05:44 AM
When you first sign up the site matches you with every one in your area. That doesn't mean they are interested in you. Just are you interested in them. laugh Look for who has viewed you first.

adj4u's photo
Fri 04/03/09 06:10 AM
you must go to find more matches on the mutual match page and click yes no or maybe as your interest dictates if both click yes or maybe you will both be advised of the mutual match

charles's photo
Fri 04/03/09 09:33 PM
Welcome to the site, ken1224. As posted above, you'll have to rate others on Mutual Match to see if you ever find out that lady's identity. If you both say "Maybe" or "Yes" to each other, then you will find out who she is. Here is the page where you can do this, and you can reach it from your Account Home:
http://mingle2.com/mutual_match/find_matches

Jonaman's photo
Tue 04/07/09 12:37 PM
Edited by Jonaman on Tue 04/07/09 12:58 PM
i have the same question as ken. it says "1 person said they want to meet you" but how do i see who that person is?

the link only shows your MUTUAL MATCHES, not "potential matches".

it's as if the "potential" matches fall into this invisible hole until you also agree to match with them but how can you do that if you dont who the person was to begin with?

do i just have to match with random people that it suggests until i figure out who the person was? it doesnt make sense to me.


no photo
Tue 04/07/09 01:12 PM

i have the same question as ken. it says "1 person said they want to meet you" but how do i see who that person is?

the link only shows your MUTUAL MATCHES, not "potential matches".

it's as if the "potential" matches fall into this invisible hole until you also agree to match with them but how can you do that if you dont who the person was to begin with?

do i just have to match with random people that it suggests until i figure out who the person was? it doesnt make sense to me.





When you click go find some new matches you will be shown a series of profiles. One of them will be the one who said yes to you. Thus, they are sort of anonymous. If you do not like the look of the profile and say no, you will not be mutually matched.

charles's photo
Tue 04/07/09 08:40 PM
Welcome to the site, Jonaman. Just to add one thing to what Waterloosunset posted:
A "Maybe" is essentially the same thing as a "Yes", when it comes to Mutual Match. If you both say "Maybe" or "Yes" to each other, then, you will be matched.