Inconsistencies between what they say and what they do.

not knowing what the person's real motives are

I'll agree with this one!

Two things,

One: She will not get the F**K off of her cell phone while we are on a date,

Two: She starts getting friendly with other guys and not in the "I'm just a friendly person," way. You KNOW exactly what I mean!!


Those two things end the date right there and then for me.

When someone use me just for sex and lie and say things that they think you want to hear( I will call you,etc.), because I know I deserve better.

Completely agree!

Exactly

Nothing.

I own my fears and doubts... whatever the behaviour of the other is it's their business...it isn't about me.

well if they don't call after the date, then u can pretty well imagine that something did not click...

i had this happen. some dude really wanted a date so to the movies we went. and so i did not talk much...ur in a movie for christ's sakes, and so r u supposed to talk the dude's ear off? nope.

and so he said i was too quiet. um so what am i supposed to do...become a blabber mouth and comment on every fricking thing going on? i don't think so.

so now i talk til they say "SHUT UP. did someone drop a quarter in u?"

try nodding your head and saying yes, or the opposite

ex boyfriends that are comunicating more with them than I am kinda makes me insecure.

Talldub nailed it on the head.

When I don't know what she wants. It's kind of like an awkward silence. I never know how to bridge the gap between friends and "more than" friends unless it just happens.

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