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I am involved with a man who is wealthy, however I am not sure if I am in love with him. His personality is great, he is very attentive,loving and treats me great, except he is a poor kisser and his body type kinda turns me off. Should I stay, cause there is always gonna be soemthing or move on. He also takes me places I cannot afford by myself.
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If it feels like you are living a lie then you are.
So what he is wealthy. If that is what is keeping you together with him then you do have some real soul searching to do... |
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in time respect grows to love
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If it feels like you are living a lie then you are. So what he is wealthy. If that is what is keeping you together with him then you do have some real soul searching to do... ![]() ![]() |
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I am involved with a man who is wealthy, however I am not sure if I am in love with him. His personality is great, he is very attentive,loving and treats me great, except he is a poor kisser and his body type kinda turns me off. Should I stay, cause there is always gonna be soemthing or move on. He also takes me places I cannot afford by myself. |
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If there is something missing, his money will never change that.
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well you dont want to stay just for the money......that would be a no no
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in time respect grows to love ![]() Are you saying it is ok to "take advantage" of something that isn't going to last? |
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in time respect grows to love ![]() Are you saying it is ok to "take advantage" of something that isn't going to last? no,i'm saying in time respect grows to love ![]() |
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Edited by
darkowl1
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Sat 03/28/09 06:49 PM
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well, you can teach him to kiss, with gentle psycology, and get him started in gentle cardio first, then get him in the gym, with a gentle trainer, for he has the rest of his life, so there should be no hurry. he will feel better, and have more energy for everything....
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well you dont want to stay just for the money......that would be a no no Well I am really not, but we do so many neat things that it is hard to find someone to do stuff with, alot of guys I have dated just want to sit around, this guy doesn't. |
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I was involved in a similar situation some time ago - I was in your position. When I had to make a decision and end the relationship they took it as I was only interested in their money etc and that was why I stayed and no matter what I said I couldn`t convince them otherwise. I feel that if you don`t care for that other person you are not only stopping your own chance of happiness but spoiling theirs to. How would you feel if the position was reversed?
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well, you can teach him to kiss, with gentle psycology, and get him started in gentle cardio first, then get him in the gym, with a gentle trainer, for he has the rest of his life, so there should be no hurry. he will feel better, and have more energy for everything.... ![]() How can you teach someone to kiss the way you want, I really did not think that was truly possible, and he says he likes himself the way he is..i have tried to lovingly coax him to get more active. |
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marry him
and in three or four years get a divorce and take half |
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Just be honest.
Tell him you'll marry him if he buys you a hot boyfriend |
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We have broken it off before and he asks to come back into my life and somehow we get back together cause I miss the fun stuff we do and miss his funny ways, etc. But i feel i don't love him.
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in time respect grows to love ![]() Are you saying it is ok to "take advantage" of something that isn't going to last? no,i'm saying in time respect grows to love ![]() I don't see that ![]() |
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I am involved with a man who is wealthy, however I am not sure if I am in love with him. His personality is great, he is very attentive,loving and treats me great, except he is a poor kisser and his body type kinda turns me off. Should I stay, cause there is always gonna be soemthing or move on. He also takes me places I cannot afford by myself. ![]() ![]() |
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marry him and in three or four years get a divorce and take half He is recently divorced, (couple years,) the first wife did that too him and I just could not do it again, don't have that in me. He was married 17 years to her!! |
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in time respect grows to love ![]() Are you saying it is ok to "take advantage" of something that isn't going to last? no,i'm saying in time respect grows to love ![]() I don't see that ![]() i've seen it ![]() |
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