I understand! I was with a poor kisser as well, there was something missing. I was able to express to the person I'd show them how to kiss, sadly trail after trail trying to fix and create what they didn't have I gave up and moved on. I shouldn't be a burden to a 28 year old that has little time for change.

I agree let this man have a chance at real love someone who will accept him as is

this right here is why most men are not trusting of woman.

woman who do this.then they whine about men who use them.

Hey we are not all alike

look i think that this woman is just barking to hear herself bark after thinking it over.... this is an emotional plea to hook u all.
listen to the facts.....

she does not like his body type and he is a bad kisser, but his pocket book excites her, and he keeps coming back for more punishment. so what does that tell you. he likes abuse, and since he is a fountain of dinero, he does not mind parting with it. what man will give up his money freely...so he can't kiss/and is built with a body that went south....

this is a case of he likes the chase, and she likes the money.
end of story. and to those of u in a far off place, like NY...where there is plenty of money and lots of using going on....stay celebite...the things that nuns do...and u will be very happy.

pauline "duffy" harvey from nuthouse 9 operation...

wow- been there- done that. It was fun but eventually I moved on. It was nice to not worry about money- to go into the mall and come out with a tiny bag of make-up that was over 300 bucks... but eventually it catches up with u (lest it did me). Personally, I have learned that love is way better then going to disney world at the spur of the moment- but at the time- I was enjoying the ride. I think you will KNOW what to do and when to do it..

Good luck
NOTE- I DID NOT know he had money when I started dating him BTW...

LMAOO there I go spitting coffee all over my keyboard again.. dam

oh well....this has been going on for quite some time, and long after we r all dead or on another site typing away, they will be doing this.....

i speak from personal experience. i had a bf, and he was an Italian, retired navy chief, and he had some money. Leo was not the most handsome man in the world, and he was bald, and kind of a mafia type of guy. but he had a heart....
however, after dating him for several years, i arrived at the same conclusion. he was too old....about 16 years older... i did not feel the attraction that i should, and on and on and on. but he kept coming back. and i was in a position that i enjoyed going out to dinner, and to the movies. and we travelled....however, we fought.
we talked about getting married, but he was still freshly divorced, and he was no peach...he wandered...
and there were periods of time where we were broken up and he would contact me, and so the cycle repeated itself.
i can't tell u what split us up for the last time, but it did happen..he moved away, and i went my own direction.
he wrote to me for years, and then suddenly it quit. he moved to florida where the ladies are abundant, and built himself a house. i lost contact.
i wonder where he is today, and reflect on just what it was that caused me to stay in this relationship. it was need. it was companionship, it was comfort, it was travel, it was all those things that go into being with someone. sure we had sex, but it was kind of the type of sex that was for older birds, not the hot sex.
so these are my thoughts on the subject....about this woman and man...i hope that someone reads this short story for what it is worth and can make some sense on just what it was that kept me in this. now it has turned into a story.
Leo whereever you are, I appreciated you for what you did for me. It is a shame we could not make it work.

The grass might appear greener on the other side of the fence until you actually get there ...
remember there are other people on the other side of the fence looking at your side too ...
think carefully about what your doing and why you feel the way you feel ...
i do not believe this is so much about him as it is about you and your own happiness ..
your evaluating things the petty things. what is the real issue that is getting to you...
he can be the issue or the focus cause that is the easiest way to look for all the little things but if you made a list of all the positive things you might realize you have something worthwhile ...
sometimes we dont see the truth when its right in front of us
no relationship will be perfect .. youll have your good/bad ups/downs
i bet if you sat down and told him what would really make you temperature rise and show him the kiss ... he will get it by your action and understand what it is you want
as far as active well make it fun and i bet some playfulness can get him active ...
most of us who are not active enough are that way because its not as fun to be in a routine vs just winging it or having an incentive
good luck

somebody added some snuffles and snorts to my story. who did it..
kickinbackwithyourhoneyaged55-65?

oaky it is the site moderators adding snort and snuffle to this whole operation. my civil right "snort snort" r being violated..."snuffle".