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Redshirt's photo
Sat 03/28/09 09:31 PM
Things have you done after a relationship when bad to heal? Please no bashing of exs.

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Sat 03/28/09 09:34 PM
Go shopping buying something new always makes me feel better!

Redshirt's photo
Sat 03/28/09 09:40 PM

Go shopping buying something new always makes me feel better!


That sounds good.:thumbsup:

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Sat 03/28/09 09:49 PM
Sat still and reflected on what my part was and how I could do better for myself and a future mate. I know........... BORING!!! yawn ohwell

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Sat 03/28/09 09:49 PM
Spend some time in the sun doing things you enjoy. Both the sunshine and the activity are great for improving how you feel.

Redshirt's photo
Sat 03/28/09 09:53 PM

Sat still and reflected on what my part was and how I could do better for myself and a future mate. I know........... BORING!!! yawn ohwell


Not boring at all. Very good thing to do. Cudos for you.

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 03/28/09 09:54 PM
Focus more on myself!!!

Redshirt's photo
Sat 03/28/09 09:58 PM

Focus more on myself!!!


That is often the hardest thing to do...yet the best in the long run.

Redshirt's photo
Sat 03/28/09 09:59 PM

Spend some time in the sun doing things you enjoy. Both the sunshine and the activity are great for improving how you feel.


Yep they are. Is that how come people move to the southwest? flowerforyou

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Sat 03/28/09 10:02 PM
More sun, less snow. Sounds good to me.

Redshirt's photo
Sat 03/28/09 10:06 PM
Well we have open houses around. Tomorrow it is suppose to be in the 70's. My roses are about to bloom

galendgirl's photo
Sat 03/28/09 10:15 PM
Moved along and had a great and happy life...
:heart:

Redshirt's photo
Sat 03/28/09 10:17 PM

Moved along and had a great and happy life...
:heart:


Had???? or Having? flowerforyou

galendgirl's photo
Sat 03/28/09 10:18 PM


Moved along and had a great and happy life...
:heart:


Had???? or Having? flowerforyou


Still having...but I healed long ago.

MelodyGirl's photo
Sat 03/28/09 10:24 PM
Focus on myself; make sure I didn't lose myself in the relationship; make sure my goals were still on track, and make new goals.

And, stay single for a bit! :banana:

OrangeCat's photo
Sat 03/28/09 10:29 PM
been single for a longtime,but after the last one just went on with life,aint a reason to sit around letting it bring ya down.drinker

ladywolf9653's photo
Sat 03/28/09 10:32 PM
I head for the river, and hike back for a few hours until I find a good log to sit on. I watch the river flow by, and think of all the good things that happened during the relationship, and what lessons I can learn from what happened. I cry if I feel the need, and then let it all go.

I usually come back refreshed and ready to move on :)

Dragoness's photo
Sat 03/28/09 10:33 PM

Things have you done after a relationship when bad to heal? Please no bashing of exs.


Spend more time on me. Getting more exersize maybe or taking a class I wanted to take. Reading and writing. Allow myself the time to work through the grieving process because our bodies react to break up similar to someone dying.

Redshirt's photo
Sat 03/28/09 10:47 PM
How interesting...outside myself and Patsfan only two males have said any thing.

For myself...find spending time with myself, my animals, and nature to be very healing. Do miss rivers to sit by...what a wonderful image.

OrangeCat's photo
Sat 03/28/09 10:48 PM
only 2 males?? lol dont forget me now

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