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Topic: Truth or Candy?
mickeyford Joined Sun 11/09/08 Posts: 3240	Sat 03/28/09 01:08 PM
raw trut

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Sat 03/28/09 01:08 PM
The truth can hurt And usually does. Thus, people prefer to choose denial instead.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 03/28/09 01:09 PM
The truth can hurt And usually does. Thus, people prefer to choose denial instead. exactly

evilbabe277 Joined Thu 02/19/09 Posts: 2751	Sat 03/28/09 01:09 PM
<----Looks around and backs out slowly. don't leave me

heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Sat 03/28/09 01:10 PM Edited by heartSoul on Sat 03/28/09 01:10 PM
The truth can hurt And usually does. Thus, people prefer to choose denial instead.

adi2d30 Joined Sun 09/30/07 Posts: 2510	Sat 03/28/09 01:10 PM
can i have some candy?

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Sat 03/28/09 01:12 PM
Oh, that's BRILLIANT!! Somebody scream some Jack Nicholson for me!

Shadylady131 Joined Wed 12/31/08 Posts: 483	Sat 03/28/09 01:12 PM
Be honest, Not hurtful....

evilbabe277 Joined Thu 02/19/09 Posts: 2751	Sat 03/28/09 01:12 PM
can i have some candy? Nope the candy is mine all mine I say

Def03 Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 910	Sat 03/28/09 01:12 PM
The truth can hurt And usually does. Thus, people prefer to choose denial instead. exactly Denial is great.

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Sat 03/28/09 01:13 PM
The truth can hurt And usually does. Thus, people prefer to choose denial instead. exactly Denial is great. Denial is a river in Egypt.

Mayhem_J Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 14265	Sat 03/28/09 01:14 PM
I prefer to have butter spread on top. Honey butter? Tina butter

evilbabe277 Joined Thu 02/19/09 Posts: 2751	Sat 03/28/09 01:15 PM
Be honest, Not hurtful.... Isn't the truth sometimes hurtful?

Mayhem_J Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 14265	Sat 03/28/09 01:20 PM
You cant handle the truth!!!

Dancere Joined Sun 04/06/08 Posts: 14561	Sat 03/28/09 01:20 PM
A spoon full of sugar really DOES help the medicine go down. One can be completely honest, and still maintain a gentle delivery. Takes maturity and thoughtfulness: Measured response versus rash reaction ... Sometimes "The Golden Rule" means helping someone grow, w/ the insight you have. The difference between coal and a diamond IS, simply, pressure! If I'm out of line, I SO appreciate revisionary focus shared w/ me; the truth can hurt while it promotes growth. Doesn't mean I'll allow anyone to bash me or another. Takes a few deep breaths and a time-out to bring TRUE, wise and helpful rationale. Takes a few deep breaths to receive the news (being pulled up by your short and curlies) too! Communication is to assist relationship. It is NOT a dart-throwing soapbox; The heart that you break may be your own.

evilbabe277 Joined Thu 02/19/09 Posts: 2751	Sat 03/28/09 01:21 PM
You cant handle the truth!!! no you can't hadndle the truth!!!

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Sat 03/28/09 01:21 PM
You cant handle the truth!!! Thank you! I was waiting to see how long it would be before somebody honored my request!

Redshirt Joined Tue 02/26/08 Posts: 2109	Sat 03/28/09 01:24 PM
How something is said is as important as what is being said. It is possible to tell the truth in a fashion that is not rude or demeaning to the other person.

Shadylady131 Joined Wed 12/31/08 Posts: 483	Sat 03/28/09 01:27 PM
How something is said is as important as what is being said. It is possible to tell the truth in a fashion that is not rude or demeaning to the other person. Yea, what HE said.....You can be honest, and mean. Or you can be honest, and compassionate..

evilbabe277 Joined Thu 02/19/09 Posts: 2751	Sat 03/28/09 01:28 PM
Perhaps I'm not seeing it clearly enough and well I will agree that I don't always.. So what I am hearing is that the truth is best but if only sugar coating meaning words choosen wisely?