not to answer messages? ; ; I rarely, rarely get any replies from the few messages I've sent to women. Even if people are not interested in someone, shouldn't they at least say "Hi. thanks but no thanks"? Hell, i'd be ok with "eww, no, creep'o" but just to ignore people is mean! ; ;

nawww....


LOL

Women have to deal with a lot more freaks than men do.
So I understand if they don't answer.

It happens, sometimes.

There are men that do not answer mail, also.

This is very true.....

I always try to say at least 'thanks' for the complement if they give one, and 'good luck on your search' if I'm not interested.

BUT

Once in a while some guy will get nasty if I'm not interested. That makes a woman jaded to want to answer at all then.

I think we need a special forum for this problem...

I try to answer as well but some emails I don't b/c someone says "hey sexy", hey this dork! etc. there are plenty of reasons women don't answer..

I tried to acknowledge messages as you suggested -- a polite no thank you -- but then the guy will reply back with something like, "B*tch ....."

Sometimes it's better left alone.

Did you Go to sent mail and see if they even read the mail yet? Perhaps they didn't get the message yet.

Ummm, u didn't send me one yet

you get messages????? I'M JEALOUS

Hehe. ya. But oh well. Guess I never thought about guys being mean after being rejected too. So, I guess I see why some women wouldn't respond.

I dunno, I personally have answered mails from people I have no interested in and have just told them that. And actually kept chatting with them for awhile after doing so. =P And when I do send mails to people I might be interested in, i try to be polite and never have gone the "omg you so sexy" route.

Anyway... thanks for the responses ladies and gents. ^^

Don't look so serious in your profile picture. Smiling is probably the easiest way to make you more approachable

Cool, cool. Guess I can give the whole "smiling" thing a try. =P

It is true, most men are complete assholes, and women get the short end of that..... but hey that just gives the rest of us a reason to be better than them!

Welcome to the internet.

There is a local gal, she perv's me now and again.
So I send an email, nothing
She perv'd me again today, and for her, I got nothing.

I mean women pervs are awesome..... but just not the type u wanna invite home. U get a hotel so there are no stalking issues!!!

Yeah, it sucks. But it does happen. Just don't try to take it too serious or personal.

Think of it ithis way... she just lost out.

Eh well.... another one bites the dust