Topic: would you ever fight someone
74Drew's photo
Thu 03/19/09 03:13 PM

Not sure I understand the question....

if you are asking if there was another person vying for my significant other...well, if my significant other was showing any interest for this person.. than no. If they are not, then again no.. for I would let him handle it.

I won't *fight* for someone.. either they want to be with me or they don't... it's just that simple for me flowerforyou


exactly


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Meg8771's photo
Thu 03/19/09 03:15 PM
No - why fight for someone who does not want to be with you 250%?

If they did, there would be no fight involved, because the other person would not even be an option.

Jungian101's photo
Thu 03/19/09 03:22 PM
Hmmm.
Been there, done that.
Had a person say something rude, confronted the situation and there was some banter.

However, I was the Land Lord and they were the tenant. So things were alread out of balance.

She, however did not see that. She was pissed because I did not duke it out with the guy. (duke..?? That's showing some age.) Well long story short, she never again respected me for it.
I gues I was supposed to take the guy out, drag him infornt of his family and defend her honor.

Couldn't do that, because as the Land Lord, I alway's had the upper hand.

I guess it was a guy thing, but I am not going to kick a person who helps me pay my mortgage in the nuts. Its just wrong.

Jungian101's photo
Thu 03/19/09 03:22 PM
Hmmm.
Been there, done that.
Had a person say something rude, confronted the situation and there was some banter.

However, I was the Land Lord and they were the tenant. So things were alread out of balance.

She, however did not see that. She was pissed because I did not duke it out with the guy. (duke..?? That's showing some age.) Well long story short, she never again respected me for it.
I gues I was supposed to take the guy out, drag him infornt of his family and defend her honor.

Couldn't do that, because as the Land Lord, I alway's had the upper hand.

I guess it was a guy thing, but I am not going to kick a person who helps me pay my mortgage in the nuts. Its just wrong. frown

no photo
Thu 03/19/09 03:28 PM
Defending her honor? If it was not a situation where she flirted and brought it on? NO.... Where she was being acosted by someone and did nothing at all to make it happen Yes. but as many have said if they don't want to be with me then move on already... Because I will asap.

misstina2's photo
Thu 03/19/09 03:53 PM
flowerforyou

Hmmm.
Been there, done that.
Had a person say something rude, confronted the situation and there was some banter.

However, I was the Land Lord and they were the tenant. So things were alread out of balance.

She, however did not see that. She was pissed because I did not duke it out with the guy. (duke..?? That's showing some age.) Well long story short, she never again respected me for it.
I gues I was supposed to take the guy out, drag him infornt of his family and defend her honor.

Couldn't do that, because as the Land Lord, I alway's had the upper hand.

I guess it was a guy thing, but I am not going to kick a person who helps me pay my mortgage in the nuts. Its just wrong. frown
sounds like it

Jungian101's photo
Thu 03/19/09 03:55 PM

flowerforyou

Hmmm.
Been there, done that.
Had a person say something rude, confronted the situation and there was some banter.

However, I was the Land Lord and they were the tenant. So things were alread out of balance.

She, however did not see that. She was pissed because I did not duke it out with the guy. (duke..?? That's showing some age.) Well long story short, she never again respected me for it.
I gues I was supposed to take the guy out, drag him infornt of his family and defend her honor.

Couldn't do that, because as the Land Lord, I alway's had the upper hand.

I guess it was a guy thing, but I am not going to kick a person who helps me pay my mortgage in the nuts. Its just wrong. frown
sounds like it

I'm sorry Ms. Tina, sounds like what what

misstina2's photo
Thu 03/19/09 04:10 PM


flowerforyou

Hmmm.
Been there, done that.
Had a person say something rude, confronted the situation and there was some banter.

However, I was the Land Lord and they were the tenant. So things were alread out of balance.

She, however did not see that. She was pissed because I did not duke it out with the guy. (duke..?? That's showing some age.) Well long story short, she never again respected me for it.
I gues I was supposed to take the guy out, drag him infornt of his family and defend her honor.

Couldn't do that, because as the Land Lord, I alway's had the upper hand.

I guess it was a guy thing, but I am not going to kick a person who helps me pay my mortgage in the nuts. Its just wrong. frown
sounds like it

I'm sorry Ms. Tina, sounds like what what
that it was just wrongflowerforyou

krupa's photo
Thu 03/19/09 05:05 PM
Last time I dealt with that....I was at this woman's apartment one evening....her drunk ex came knocking.....after begging to come in he realized that someone was inside with her....he went nuts and did the threatening thing about how he was gonna find me...he then started beating on my truck....

Soooo, I zipped up my riding leathers, slipped a butcher knife into each sleeve, waited for him to pound on the door again..just as he did, I swung it open. I had no idea the lil guy was like 2 feet shorter than me..he stumbled back and fell. Well, I stepped on his hair to pin his head. and knelt with a blade visible to him...

I told him..."Mike, your address is ********grove st., I know where you park when you are at work at Bandag, your pin # on your debit card is ****. You don't gotta find me....I know where to find you. Time for you to leave."

I went back inside. and called the police. He left and ended up getting tazed and arrested when the cops showed up at his place.

Violence is best avoided. But, the threat of violence can be a useful tool.

misstina2's photo
Thu 03/19/09 05:15 PM

Last time I dealt with that....I was at this woman's apartment one evening....her drunk ex came knocking.....after begging to come in he realized that someone was inside with her....he went nuts and did the threatening thing about how he was gonna find me...he then started beating on my truck....

Soooo, I zipped up my riding leathers, slipped a butcher knife into each sleeve, waited for him to pound on the door again..just as he did, I swung it open. I had no idea the lil guy was like 2 feet shorter than me..he stumbled back and fell. Well, I stepped on his hair to pin his head. and knelt with a blade visible to him...

I told him..."Mike, your address is ********grove st., I know where you park when you are at work at Bandag, your pin # on your debit card is ****. You don't gotta find me....I know where to find you. Time for you to leave."

I went back inside. and called the police. He left and ended up getting tazed and arrested when the cops showed up at his place.

Violence is best avoided. But, the threat of violence can be a useful tool.
I agree volence is best avoidedflowerforyou

seahawks's photo
Thu 03/19/09 05:16 PM

noway Those days are behind me
cheers mate me2.!laugh drinker

7z3r05's photo
Thu 03/19/09 05:29 PM

:heart: Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?:heart:






Oh yeah. I have and I'd do it again if need be.

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 03/20/09 12:50 AM


:heart: Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?:heart:






Oh yeah. I have and I'd do it again if need be.
laugh

DragonFlyTat's photo
Fri 03/20/09 07:27 AM
If they were disrespecting them or harming them then I would do what was in my power to help my honey.

NtheWind's photo
Fri 03/20/09 08:27 AM
Edited by NtheWind on Fri 03/20/09 08:58 AM

:heart: Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?:heart:




shades
hey misstina

Ah the art of war

lets see what did the great Sun Tzu state.?
under "strategic offensives"
"A skillful strategist defeats the enemy without doing battle"
on the 5 essentials for victory...
#1 "know when to fight and when not to fight"

and finally...
If in doubt ....
knock'm out!:thumbsup:

Yes I would be a champion for my princess.smooched
but I don't believe that situation should ever arise.

smokin

RKISIT's photo
Fri 03/20/09 08:31 AM
hell these days if you do protect someone you love you go to jail and then lose everything..even the one you protected.:smile:

longhairbiker's photo
Fri 03/20/09 08:35 AM

:heart: Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?:heart:


...no.

longhairbiker's photo
Fri 03/20/09 08:38 AM
But then again I have no significant other.

Stoned43's photo
Fri 03/20/09 09:20 AM
im a lover not a fighter:wink:

ashley061885's photo
Fri 03/20/09 09:23 AM

:heart: Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?:heart:





i would not....its pointless. besides, why go after the other woman when u should be going after him!!