I'll take your word on that.

Then tell me the scoop!

I used to have what people call the "Florence Nightengale Syndrome"...Falling in love with men who had "bobo's". I would nurse them back to health, so to speak, and they would fly away to their "perfect woman". This included men who couldn't love themselves.

It took a while, now I just send them to a physician...lol

If they can't love themselves, how can they love me?

Send him an email

I did it for the better part of 15 years.

no ...............
don't waste your time

if someone can't love themselves, they definitely can't love you.....

Ain't No Way
Aretha Franklin

Ain't no way for me to love you,
if you won't let me.
It ain't no way for me to give you all you need,
if you won't let me give all of me.
I know that a woman's duty is to help and love a man,
and that's the way it was planned.
Oh, but how can I, how can I, how can I
give you all the things I can,
if you're tying both of my hands?

Oh, it ain't no way (ain't no way).
It ain't no way (ain't no way).
It just ain't no way, baby (ain't no way).
Ain't no way baby (ain't no way).
It ain't no way for me to love you,
if you won't let me.

Stop trying to be someone you're not.
How cold and cruel is a man
who pay too much for what he got?
And if you need me to love you, say, say you do.
Oh, then baby, baby, baby don't you know that
I need you.
Oh, Oh, it ain't no way.
I'll tell you that it ain't no way,
It ain't no way.
It ain't no way, baby, no.
It just ain't no way.
It sure ain't no way
It ain't no way for me to love you,
if you won't let me...

(Ad lib to fade)no way...if you won't let me...ain't no way

good song

I have, for some reason it did not work.

The real question is...can they truly love you back?

Superman has some special for you Louis

Thats right

Love someone? sure, have a HEALTHY relationship with someone? Nope.
If they don't love themselves they are going to seek acceptance from everyone not just you....well in my experiences anyway.