Topic: Whats more important to you?
evilbabe277's photo
Wed 03/18/09 04:24 PM
A physical attraction or a mental connection

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 03/18/09 04:25 PM
That depends, initial attraction, long term.

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Wed 03/18/09 04:25 PM
both

papersmile's photo
Wed 03/18/09 04:27 PM
Personally, having a great mental connection makes the person become even better looking. The better the relationship progresses, the more handsome they become.

Having a good looking guy who offers nada in the way of emotional stimulation will do absolutely nothing for me.

While I wouldn't ever date someone that I found unattractive, I wouldn't want no mental connection there at all. THAT is far more important to me.

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Wed 03/18/09 04:29 PM
well I think he is fine...really hot
now how do i get him to like me???
Where does that leave me?
I guess physical..altho I need the mental to...

Riding_Dubz's photo
Wed 03/18/09 04:29 PM
They both have to be there flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Wed 03/18/09 04:32 PM
I think the physical part of it is first. (for me)
I cannot sleep or have a relationship with a guy, that I am not attracted to. They may be the most wonderful person in the world, but if the physical isn't there, it just isn't going to happen. flowerforyou

evilbabe277's photo
Wed 03/18/09 04:33 PM
I myself do need a physical attraction, but I tell you when a man gets inside my head its amazing and makes him very attractive in a whole different way

Meg8771's photo
Wed 03/18/09 04:34 PM
Both

irad8you's photo
Wed 03/18/09 04:35 PM

They both have to be there flowerforyou flowerforyou
Ditto

MeChrissy2's photo
Wed 03/18/09 04:36 PM

I myself do need a physical attraction, but I tell you when a man gets inside my head its amazing and makes him very attractive in a whole different way


DITTO!

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Wed 03/18/09 04:39 PM
Both are important, but the Mental connection would have to come first. Beauty is far more then skin deep. I've met plenty of smoking girls that I wouldn't consider because how we didn't connect mentally.

I'm just weird though

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Wed 03/18/09 04:39 PM
I think both are important

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Wed 03/18/09 04:40 PM
Physical can get my attention initially -- but without some sort of intellectual compatibility, I get bored quickly. I have a long history of short-term entanglements....

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 03/18/09 04:42 PM
I call this my Relationship Club sam'ich!!!

Attraction
- Mental Connection
- Increased Attraction
- Great Sexual Connection
Attraction

That is better than bread, bacon, turkey, bread, lettuce, tomato and bread any day! :laughing:

no photo
Wed 03/18/09 04:43 PM

Personally, having a great mental connection makes the person become even better looking. The better the relationship progresses, the more handsome they become.

Having a good looking guy who offers nada in the way of emotional stimulation will do absolutely nothing for me.

While I wouldn't ever date someone that I found unattractive, I wouldn't want no mental connection there at all. THAT is far more important to me.


I agree with everything you've said.

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Wed 03/18/09 04:44 PM
They both have to be there.

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Wed 03/18/09 05:48 PM
The closer the mental/emotional connection, the better they look.

But first she has to get my attention.

beautyonthefire's photo
Wed 03/18/09 07:17 PM
It looks like you can't make us choose!!

TattooedDude81's photo
Wed 03/18/09 07:51 PM

I think the physical part of it is first. (for me)
I cannot sleep or have a relationship with a guy, that I am not attracted to. They may be the most wonderful person in the world, but if the physical isn't there, it just isn't going to happen. flowerforyou



Amen! I gotta have a woman I'm very attracted to for anything to go further than a friends relationship.