Topic: Whats more important to you? | |
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A physical attraction or a mental connection
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That depends, initial attraction, long term.
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both
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Personally, having a great mental connection makes the person become even better looking. The better the relationship progresses, the more handsome they become.
Having a good looking guy who offers nada in the way of emotional stimulation will do absolutely nothing for me. While I wouldn't ever date someone that I found unattractive, I wouldn't want no mental connection there at all. THAT is far more important to me. |
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well I think he is fine...really hot
now how do i get him to like me??? Where does that leave me? I guess physical..altho I need the mental to... |
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They both have to be there
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I think the physical part of it is first. (for me)
I cannot sleep or have a relationship with a guy, that I am not attracted to. They may be the most wonderful person in the world, but if the physical isn't there, it just isn't going to happen. |
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I myself do need a physical attraction, but I tell you when a man gets inside my head its amazing and makes him very attractive in a whole different way
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Both
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They both have to be there |
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I myself do need a physical attraction, but I tell you when a man gets inside my head its amazing and makes him very attractive in a whole different way DITTO! |
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Both are important, but the Mental connection would have to come first. Beauty is far more then skin deep. I've met plenty of smoking girls that I wouldn't consider because how we didn't connect mentally.
I'm just weird though |
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I think both are important
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Physical can get my attention initially -- but without some sort of intellectual compatibility, I get bored quickly. I have a long history of short-term entanglements....
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I call this my Relationship Club sam'ich!!!
Attraction - Mental Connection - Increased Attraction - Great Sexual Connection Attraction That is better than bread, bacon, turkey, bread, lettuce, tomato and bread any day! |
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Personally, having a great mental connection makes the person become even better looking. The better the relationship progresses, the more handsome they become. Having a good looking guy who offers nada in the way of emotional stimulation will do absolutely nothing for me. While I wouldn't ever date someone that I found unattractive, I wouldn't want no mental connection there at all. THAT is far more important to me. I agree with everything you've said. |
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They both have to be there.
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The closer the mental/emotional connection, the better they look.
But first she has to get my attention. |
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It looks like you can't make us choose!!
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I think the physical part of it is first. (for me) I cannot sleep or have a relationship with a guy, that I am not attracted to. They may be the most wonderful person in the world, but if the physical isn't there, it just isn't going to happen. Amen! I gotta have a woman I'm very attracted to for anything to go further than a friends relationship. |
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