My mother always tells me, one of her friends she grew up with always told her "There are the girls you date, and then there are the girls you marry...and they are two very different people..."

I am wondering what all the guys' outlooks on this is? Is it true? If so why...if not why...?

I date sluts...

I'd marry a good girl :P

Personaly I wouldent know. I havent met a woman who made it to the alter with me.

while it sounds bad, it's a good thing because it saved me from makeing some HUGE mistakes. Though If I could find one that can make it to the alter, and even to the 'death do you part' thing, I would be happy.

From now on it will just be girls I date because I'm never getting married again!!

Define .'good'..........

Guess that sums it up, OP!

Good - someone who has morals, that I wouldn't have to worry about cheating on me, good cook, cleans... Kinda boring but still silly/goofy.

If you're a good girl, you know it... :P

so you would turn a slut into a good girl..your so codependent

Nothing wrong with a good slut

What about a good girl who likes trips to the dark side every so often....with her main man, that is!

Ok I am confused (nothing new here) but somehow I always thought dates were what led to marriage



My grandmother had the perfect solution to this problem.....she said that every man wants a lady on his arm and a slut in his bed and the very smartest wives know this and keep the secret~

This is just my personal opinion, but all women have an inner slut that is just begging to come out.

Usually it takes the right guy to bring it out.

The only difference between a good girl and a "slut" is that a slut will act on those impulses with anyone while a good girl will only act on those urges with the man she's with.

If the man she is with can't bring out that side of her, then she'll just fantasize about those desires and end up feeling repressed...

I could be wrong, but that's kinda the way I see it...

I am by far NOT the good woman.... and I know it.

Your grandmother was a smart lady.

What's her number?

Sad to say my granny is a long time gone, I miss her, But her legacy carries on

That's where you are wrong.... a woman knows her sexuality... and doesn't USUALLY require some bloke to bring it out....just finding a man who wants to be a man, and not be mothered, will usually have a woman comfortable enough to show herself.

I won't date someone just for a date with out realizing she also could be the potential of more then that.

I'm everything your mum told you to stay away from...I am definitely not marriage material.

I agree with that to an extent...

A lot of women will find a nice guy that just doesn't know how to push those buttons inside of her.

He could be a really good, decent man that provides for her but is just clueless in the sack.

She knows she loves him but she also knows he doesn't create that spark.

That's all I'm saying when it comes to the repression.

She knows what she wants but he's not capable of providing it with his current set of beliefs.

That's where it takes a bad boy to bring out those raw, uninhibited sexual desires.

Not all guys are awesome lovers just like all women are not awesome lovers...

It takes a lot of openness, experimentation and trust on both sides.

I've gotta go for now but I'm looking forward to seeing what other replies come from this thread...

I guess my point in what I was saying may have been too subtle for some...........

WOMAN....not girl.