This is probably gonna sound selfish and centered on MY needs alone,but I've got to say something.Is it so bad that I NEED a woman?My wifes been dead for almost 7 months,and I still Love her and think of her,as does my son.I'm just so lonely,I never thought I'd ever say that,but I miss conversation.The in-laws have forsaken me,I don't have any real family to speak of,and I can't talk about LEGOs and Batman forever,I hate to do it but I guess I'll head for the clubs AGAIN.I don't really feel like church is the place for me now(thats why I have a membership here).I quit you guys for a while,but I missed my friends and those that genuinely care.I Missed You!!!So here I am,Again!Maybe someone that realizes the best things in life are right in your face sometimes will read this and think,(he's not that stupid).hahaha.....Just venting....Sorry.well I got it out anyway,I really don't know what I was even trying to say?lol

I like LEGO's and Batman.

I like turtles

your not being selfish.. your a human with feelings.

Now that you have put it out there how your feeling and what you are wanting, you just may have opened a door for you...All the best..

a touch, a kiss, a look, a hug, a word, a blanket, a bowl of popcorn, a walk, a tear, a fear, a laugh, a goal, an accomplished goal, a milkshake, a fireplace, words, a movie, a shower...these are all things to be shared

since my break-up i have been taking care of my son he's 17 now,but was twelve when me and my ex broke up,havent really heard from his mother nor received a dime for any support..

i'm ok with that she was more drama than any support is worth,but i use to do the bar scene and am a pretty good pool player,and after the break up i felt like going back to the bar scene,but i didnt figure that to be a good example for my son,and didnt need a DUI either,money would be better spent on my son..

no doubt there are times i am lonely and have been that way for about six years now,havent been out in that long either ..at times i find myself talking to myself ..and yes i answer myself also..but i still do what i must in order to take care of my son..

now i know that if i were to go out to the bar it would be eventual that i would bring a female back,but that again is not the type of example i want to be for my son..and its not easy ..but to be quite honest with you having to take care of my son has kept me grounded and probably away from things that wouldnt be good for me anyway ...

..its not always easy doing what we must but i think thats what makes us a better parent when we can put our kids needs before ourselves ..i know that i'm a better parent than my parents were to me ..but thats probably why i have a good bond with my son and not my parents..

it hasnt been easy making these sacrifices ..but if i had to do it all over again i would..that is the love that i have for my son ..nothing less would do ..and yes i would do it all over again..


but once he turns 18 i'm gonna get LAID and theres some woman out there i'm gonna give the best 8 seconds of her life..unless i get throwed off...

Warm hugs and best wishes!

Dammit you made me laugh out loud...

Why do men think that bars are where you meet women??? If you want to meet a woman with alittle depth, think outside the box. The movies, the theater, a museum, a wine tasting, even your local grocery store has possibilities. The thing is, the worst thing that could happen is you get turned down. Oh well, this goes for women and men. There are like millions more out there to try and find. A few no's here and there are nothing. The only thing is, you need to make sure you know what you want. Do you want a nice lay, or do you want a companion? You owe it to yourself and others to know what you want. That's the problem these days. We end relationships, and we're so lonely from not having anyone around, that we quickly begin searching for that someone new. Most of the time, we're not ready. If you were in a long relationship or marriage, then you definitely need to take time to find yourself again. Do things that you enjoy or use to enjoy before the relationship started. Find yourself, because only then are you capable of giving someone else yourself.

And we have nudges now too.

Hmmmmmmmmm ya I miss the touch too....

Not me! I touch myself!

i like chocolate milk. ;p