...first thing that catches your eye about a potential mate ?

His smile.

well placed tattoos.

gender

her face How she looks at me

He has to make me laugh. Good legs too!

What he says.

After all.....out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks.

That is pretty important.

right

Hair...

Usually the cease and desist order.

Her eyes, is there a twinkle of life, trouble and a lot of bad girl?

Hmm....One of the substitute teachers today had a pony tail. I was quite distracted. I was watching him walk into the building, instead of watching the parking lot to make sure kids weren't getting into a fight or getting run over. It's a good thing he walked by quick so I could get back to my job :)

I guess that means that hair is one of the first things I notice. I might not be able to remember it later (I am terrible at remembering details) but it will catch my eye first.

Also, voices will catch my attention.

The twinkle in his eye....the dimple in his chin! I am a sucker for that!!!!! LOL!