Yeee 3 cheers for ljcc1964, and may your happiness be ever lasting

Yup she's floatin

I believe in cell mates.

LOL The charms of sweet cynicism

I have always had faith in the idea of a soul mate, defined personally, a person who is perfectly suited to me. I remain optimistic in finding a soul mate but also realistic in not to necessarily expect to find one. A soul mate is someone to have a deep connection with resulting in love and passion. Long may my faith continue.

Let's go spacetruckin'!



*several people will understand this*

Being Optimistic & realistic is the perfect combination to get the most from your partner, providing they are being honest to you.

Does it involve trucks or was it just the use of a metaphor?

maybe, but this is a hard question to answer as you first have to establish what is a soul some people might have a view of the soul being something that can't be mated or match with something else, I also thing the idea of a soulmate leads to the idea that these people are going to be lead to meet each other by forces unknown to them, and not all people are going to believe in "fate" even if they do believe soulmates are possible.

well most people on here look for a perfect match and it is not rocket science I can assure you. There is NO heavenly intervention associated with romance.. just the same old caveman boy meets girl - I like you like.. hit me over the head - I'll obey said he ..

words written as a true thespian Phuque..sorry is that as Phuque.

life itself is too long a period of time to not believe in it.

to wander the world not ever thinking that maybe just maybe there might be an exact match to your soul, like a puzzle piece, lost out of the box.

i can only picture what he looks like, what he smells like. his personality... his laugh.

i dream about what he does to relax after whatever he does from work. i pray he's somewhat creative, and extremely goofy.

i wonder...

will he love me?

will it be love at first sight?

will he hate me terribly at first?

will i make an ass of myself with my mouth the first time he meets me?

will i grow on him?

will i love him so much that i change my whole view on children and marriage?

i wonder if he's urban, country, worldly, innocent.

i consider the fact that i may never find him, and will only reincarnate in order to keep looking?

i wish that my heart would only stop believing, so i can rest for just one day.

what a women that speak from the heart...

no need to stop believing in what you did not make yourself to first believe.

all is true, and shall be, even in a short time, except he shall not see any hate at all, and he shall be urban, country, wordly, and innocent...

peace to a women of heart and true calibur.

awwww thanks very much.

i'd like to say it was a calculated piece of writing but that stuff popped out spur of the moment.

sweety, have you not heard, the calculated stuff has no power to create...

the place you speak from here, is your eternal guide, and carry you to your prince...

it is the place of the heart, that your angel whisper into your ears...

go with it girl, and find your way home, where the rest of the soul is eternal...

peace to peace

A soulmate is someone who connects with your soul...You feel it deep within, and it can or cannot be a permanent connection...You will have many soul mates on this earth plane, as you will have many soul groups on this plane...To believe you should find your soul mate to have that great intimate relationship is not so...IMO...To confuse love and sex with soul mates is not so also, IMO...

Sometimes we search our whole lives looking for the perfect soul mate, and we miss out on the perfect mate that was right in front of us all the time...We also confuse our heart feelings with our soul feelings, hence my understanding/opinion that you can or cannot have a permanent connection with your soul mate...

when the heart see's it did not create it's own desire's, and stops trying to figure out how to get them, they come knocking at one's door, and the mate and knowing of what the soul wish for, is ignited from within.

the universe waits to give, to that which does not try to manipulate or find other's, to give itself what it want, which remove any true sight of even another soul, and seperate self from it's first true mate, itself.

there is no fear nor abandon, when the eye's no longer focus on itself, as one driving the road looking into it's own car, crash often.

I believe that people are brought together by fate, although I would disagree that everyone has "the one" that they're meant to be with. For example, my grandmother was married three times... and although she claims that her third husband (who has since passed) was her soulmate, I figure that he was just who she was supposed to be with at that time in her life.

I have a completely different definition of soulmates though. (FYI: You have to believe in reincarnation to agree with my theory.) I believe that soulmates are two individuals that find each other in each life. Whether they are best friends, lovers, or siblings, they are two people who have a deep, incomprehensible connection with each other.