Topic: fallin for a jsh friend | |
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that lives 2000 miles away. done the whole ldr thing before but never
out of state. kinda chicken to just lay it all out there i'm a romantic realist. think miranda on sex and the city. i'm thinking use my airline miles, take a trip, hang out, nothin serious, see if there's a connection and if not keep it the way it is. geesh. i just answered my own freakin question. i'm tellin you butterflies make me retarded. |
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yay for u =) i think im falling for a friend 2 and we only met a week
ago |
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Go slow ladies, I'd talk a lot before doing any trips. Initial feelings
are such a rush, I learned to chat on puter/phone for at least 60-90 days. Ask a lot of personal questions, pics exchanged, talk about their past; dig deep & take notes. To many out there that go to fast. Stay safe & listen to those little voices deep inside you. Big thing, TALK to friends HERE about things, get other's input. An old man's opinion |
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Take your time and use your head not your heart.
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ditto
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well said sage
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thanks. we've been friends since nov of last year so i feel you old
sage on the waiting until you actually start to know the person. i'm feeling like 6 months is too soon. lena these things seems to move much faster online than off for some strange reason but i totally understand. broken heart, silly sage & tantalizing tulip thanks a million. all of you guys rock! |
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...ldr...been there...huge bummer...
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Ohhhhhhhh Sage said it the best,, GO Slow and communication is the
key,,, |
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