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Good Grief, Do you all really think I am asking for to much?
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Geeez, ok I want someone that is a smoker and likes a few beers likes sex and cuddling,and does not mind I have kids. I think there are a ton of great guys that will fall over themselves to meet you! You are not asking too much! 
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Geeez, ok I want someone that is a smoker and likes a few beers likes sex and cuddling,and does not mind I have kids. I think there are a ton of great guys that will fall over themselves to meet you! You are not asking too much!
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Thu 02/26/09 08:57 PM
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Geeez, ok I want someone that is a smoker and likes a few beers likes sex and cuddling,and does not mind I have kids. I think there are a ton of great guys that will fall over themselves to meet you! You are not asking too much!
Keep waiting! There were a lot of inner elements I looked for in the men I dated. I was trying hard to overcome the physical; however, at the end of the day, if I didn't want to jump their bones like a monkey on a cupcake then what's the point? I have a ton of guy friends that I sync with mentally. I want the extra luxury of being attracted to 'my guy' and lusting after him too!! 
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My ex-boyfriend says I am waiting for someone that doesn't exsist... LOL.. but can you imagine? just the thought of him being out there somewhere, wow.... he better know how to play CRIBBAGE lol...
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My ex-boyfriend says I am waiting for someone that doesn't exsist... LOL.. but can you imagine? just the thought of him being out there somewhere, wow.... he better know how to play CRIBBAGE lol... 
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WELL MR SEXY (rkisit) u have a point. I wouldnt have to be single right now .if i didnt have high standards. but my wait will be worth it if i can find that certian person. and if im wrong my time will have be wasted and i will break down and marry a manager at dunkkin donuts and stop taking care ofmyself wth all the weights and jogging. ill simply spiral downwards into subpar romance and let myself slip into a binge of boston kreme donus and miller high life for the rest of my shattered existence.
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My ex-boyfriend says I am waiting for someone that doesn't exsist... LOL.. but can you imagine? just the thought of him being out there somewhere, wow.... he better know how to play CRIBBAGE lol...
what the heck is YUKER? never mind, I will GOOGLE it... LOL.. btw, are you saying that only "BOYS" know how to play CRIBBAGE? lol... |
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Edited by
RKISIT
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Fri 02/27/09 06:06 AM
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ok let me put it this way so if you had a list of 10 qualities that you want in a person and you met someone who only had 8 of the qualities would that person be considered a potential "just settling"victim or would you consider to continue seeing them, if of course its mutual.
oh cribbage is a pretty cool game to
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WELL MR SEXY (rkisit) u have a point. I wouldnt have to be single right now .if i didnt have high standards. but my wait will be worth it if i can find that certian person. and if im wrong my time will have be wasted and i will break down and marry a manager at dunkkin donuts and stop taking care ofmyself wth all the weights and jogging. ill simply spiral downwards into subpar romance and let myself slip into a binge of boston kreme donus and miller high life for the rest of my shattered existence.
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Edited by
RKISIT
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Fri 02/27/09 06:24 AM
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if your single and picky, is that why your single cause you won't settle for less,well explain what the hell is less?bring it
That's often the case with a lot of single people- they refuse to "settle" for anyone and think they can find the exact perfect match for them, which is kind of delusional in a way. I mean... if YOU'VE foibles and skeletons in YOUR closet, what would make you so "perfect" in that you would only consider someone who also that way? It all reeks of hypocrisy to me... As for myself, I'm not all that picky. Life is all about compromise and "settling" for something that might not be 100% of what we want. To expect to get to that point is just unrealistic.
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if your single and picky, is that why your single cause you won't settle for less,well explain what the hell is less?bring it
I agree with the one who said it is better to be alone than to be miserable with the wrong person! 
Its not so much being picky but holding out for the high standards you want for your future mate.
And hopefully he will have the same high standards.....making you a lasting couple. |
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less to me is when you settle for someone that you are not totally into
That would be different for each person. |
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I've settled my whole life...because I didn't want to be alone. I'm not going to do that anymore. He has to be the ONE this time, or nothing.
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Hi Rob,
since you put it that way...i'll go ahead and admit it...yes, i'm picky, and i don't "settle" I would rather be alone than be miserable, at least, by myself...i'm in good company (in my own mind). 
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I probably am a bit picky. However, I'd rather date someone I'm really into than date someone that's just eh.
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less to me is when you settle for someone that you are not totally into
That would be different for each person. i gotta go i'll be back on later
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less to me is when you settle for someone that you are not totally into
That would be different for each person. i gotta go i'll be back on later
It also depends on each person I'm talking to. I don't have a checklist of qualities I want people to have. |
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What is less? well that's what singmesweet alluded to. you can't have a set standard of what is more, or what is less, when you are dealing with people. People are different...their expectations of others are different. We all have goals, (those of us who are driven) and values. I'm the kind of person who excels, because i'm driven. (in certain areas) I think finding someone who compliments that, and exemplifies the same behavior, would be ideal. For me, personally...Less is not putting your heart into a relationship, and that...is totally unacceptable.
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Single AND picky? I'm sorry, but I absolutley have to draw the line at people who have a facination with boogers...
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