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I was a in a brief relationship with this guy about two months ago.. It didn't last long, just a few weeks. No attatchment on my part, he was just fun to be with. There was attraction.. You get the idea.
I was already thinking about breaking it off when he did it for me, lol.. Stating that its because ppl around town are talking and I have four kids, he has kids too and it was too much for him to deal with.. blah blah blah. Whatever. Just do it. I'm ok with it. Now when he sees me, he tells me he loves me, calls me sweet things, and is pretty touchy-feely... Mind you, he has a new gf. (I shrug him off and ignore him.) Today he told me he feels like he owes me something, and that he'd heard I hated him. Obviously he hasn't heard that because I've never said that. Although disgust is a pretty strong feeling right about now! I just told him that hate is a strong emotion and that I'd have to care first.. lol. That I didn't hate him, he owes me nothing, and to get over himself, he wasn't that important. So why is he acting like this? I don't get it. |
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 Drama
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Who cares? You allegedly don't. Methinks this is more like a tennis match of to and fro... and you forgot the other half of the story... of what YOU are doing to encourage this behaviour... |
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Sounds like another episode of "As the Stomach Turns", to me.
Drama drama drama!!! |
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I don't know. I'm not your psychotherapist, OB-GYN, psychiatrist, pastor, mother, father, brother, or psychic advisor. I'm just a longhaired biker on a dating site.
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I was a in a brief relationship with this guy about two months ago.. It didn't last long, just a few weeks. No attatchment on my part, he was just fun to be with. There was attraction.. You get the idea. I was already thinking about breaking it off when he did it for me, lol.. Stating that its because ppl around town are talking and I have four kids, he has kids too and it was too much for him to deal with.. blah blah blah. Whatever. Just do it. I'm ok with it. Now when he sees me, he tells me he loves me, calls me sweet things, and is pretty touchy-feely... Mind you, he has a new gf. (I shrug him off and ignore him.) Today he told me he feels like he owes me something, and that he'd heard I hated him. Obviously he hasn't heard that because I've never said that. Although disgust is a pretty strong feeling right about now! I just told him that hate is a strong emotion and that I'd have to care first.. lol. That I didn't hate him, he owes me nothing, and to get over himself, he wasn't that important. So why is he acting like this? I don't get it. |
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I don't know. I'm not your psychotherapist, OB-GYN, psychiatrist, pastor, mother, father, brother, or psychic advisor. I'm just a longhaired biker on a dating site. 
Did you find what you joined for? 
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Who knows? Breath...and reboot.
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He says and does those things now because he has no responsibility to uphold them. It has no real meaning or consequence so he's free and clear to do and say whatever he wants.
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Whoa whoa whoa...
Settle down people! I asked, because I don't know.. Ok? And I'm doing nothing to encourage his behavior. I don't call, I don't speak. I do nothing. I ignore him. Ok so never mind. |
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So ask him to stop.
it ain't rocket science. |
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He didn't want you, he now has a gf and he's hitting on you again... sounds like he only used you for sex and still wants to while he's dating the other girl.
He can't talk to you if you ignore him. If he calls, hang up. If he sees you in person, walk away. He's a dog waiting for you to throw him a bone. |
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He didn't want you, he now has a gf and he's hitting on you again... sounds like he only used you for sex and still wants to while he's dating the other girl. He can't talk to you if you ignore him. If he calls, hang up. If he sees you in person, walk away. He's a dog waiting for you to throw him a bone. I was thinking the same thing. |
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