Topic: interested in this guy
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Sat 02/14/09 01:17 PM
Edited by shygirl39 on Sat 02/14/09 01:23 PM
On another dating site, I seen someone that I use to work with and I do find him interesting and I wink him and he did not responde back yet or maybe he don't like me.I know one thing I am not going to run behind him.I wink him once and that is enough.I was always told not to run behind a man, let them come to you.What do you think on this issue? I believe I am a nice catch and I have a lot going for myself and some guys don't want a woman like me and what is up with that.The guy put in his profile, Respect yourself and me.Give him a chance and you won't be disappoint.WELL!HERE I AM!? I know looks are not everything,but I do have a lot going for myself.I am not a slut,I take care of my kids,I keep a clean house,I cook,I am a homebody(don't go to clubs,bars,etc.),I go to school.You know something, some of these guys will run behind these females(notice I did not say lady)that don't have any respect for themself.I had some boyfriends and a husband like that and here I am being a lady that I am,being look over.This kind of mess makes me angry.What is so cute about a Slut that don't have any respect for herself.Well,It's their lost,I know I have something to offer.frustrated

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Sat 02/14/09 01:25 PM
Good Luck and I agree,ohwell noway I wouldnt want to feel like I have to chase a man..I guess they either like me or they don't.ohwellohwell ohwell ohwell flowerforyou

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Sat 02/14/09 01:31 PM
Let it go and move on...

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Sat 02/14/09 01:32 PM
flowerforyou

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Sat 02/14/09 01:34 PM
I am getting to the point in just be happy being single,it is stress free.drinker

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Sat 02/14/09 01:38 PM
Edited by 2KidsMom on Sat 02/14/09 01:39 PM

I am getting to the point in just be happy being single,it is stress free.drinker
Its better to be by yourself for a while anyway...I have been by myself 2 yrs..Learn to live and love yourself first....flowerforyou flowerforyou then the rt. one will come along...at least I hope so...4 both of us...

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Sat 02/14/09 01:44 PM
flowerforyou Haunt him until he says yesflowerforyou

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Sat 02/14/09 01:44 PM
Yeah, sweetie, dont worry about that b.s.
Once you forget about finding someone, someone usually drops right in your lap.

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Sat 02/14/09 01:53 PM
Edited by shygirl39 on Sat 02/14/09 01:55 PM
You are a trip and I have been reading your comments on other posts and you are funny.:
This is for Patsfan. :laughing:

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Sat 02/14/09 01:57 PM

You are a trip and I have reading your comments on other posts and you are funny.:laughing
This is for Patsfan.



blushing Thank you, I like to have fun, a little humor does everyone some good, I'm glad it made you smilebigsmile

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Sat 02/14/09 02:02 PM


I am getting to the point in just be happy being single,it is stress free.drinker
Its better to be by yourself for a while anyway...I have been by myself 2 yrs..Learn to live and love yourself first....flowerforyou flowerforyou then the rt. one will come along...at least I hope so...4 both of us...

I am getting ready to get me makeover,have some me time and spend more time with my kids.Out of all the dating sites I have went to so far,I like this one better.bigsmile

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Sat 02/14/09 02:16 PM

I am getting to the point in just be happy being single,it is stress free.drinker


I don't know about anyone else...

But for me, it wasn't until I became 100% happy with myself, and being single, that I fully opened myself up to finding someone.

The funny thing about that is, when you finally realize that being single, although depressing at times, really isn't all that bad, then, and only then, will be when you will find someone who takes your breath away.

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Sat 02/14/09 02:32 PM
You could always just stalk him until he gives in

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Sat 02/14/09 03:10 PM

On another dating site, I seen someone that I use to work with and I do find him interesting and I wink him and he did not responde back yet or maybe he don't like me.I know one thing I am not going to run behind him.I wink him once and that is enough.I was always told not to run behind a man, let them come to you.What do you think on this issue? I believe I am a nice catch and I have a lot going for myself and some guys don't want a woman like me and what is up with that.The guy put in his profile, Respect yourself and me.Give him a chance and you won't be disappoint.WELL!HERE I AM!? I know looks are not everything,but I do have a lot going for myself.I am not a slut,I take care of my kids,I keep a clean house,I cook,I am a homebody(don't go to clubs,bars,etc.),I go to school.You know something, some of these guys will run behind these females(notice I did not say lady)that don't have any respect for themself.I had some boyfriends and a husband like that and here I am being a lady that I am,being look over.This kind of mess makes me angry.What is so cute about a Slut that don't have any respect for herself.Well,It's their lost,I know I have something to offer.frustrated


Wow, all that over the lack of response over a wink?


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Sat 02/14/09 03:31 PM

On another dating site, I seen someone that I use to work with and I do find him interesting and I wink him and he did not responde back yet or maybe he don't like me.I know one thing I am not going to run behind him.I wink him once and that is enough.I was always told not to run behind a man, let them come to you.What do you think on this issue? I believe I am a nice catch and I have a lot going for myself and some guys don't want a woman like me and what is up with that.The guy put in his profile, Respect yourself and me.Give him a chance and you won't be disappoint.WELL!HERE I AM!? I know looks are not everything,but I do have a lot going for myself.I am not a slut,I take care of my kids,I keep a clean house,I cook,I am a homebody(don't go to clubs,bars,etc.),I go to school.You know something, some of these guys will run behind these females(notice I did not say lady)that don't have any respect for themself.I had some boyfriends and a husband like that and here I am being a lady that I am,being look over.This kind of mess makes me angry.What is so cute about a Slut that don't have any respect for herself.Well,It's their lost,I know I have something to offer.frustrated



flowerforyou Good luck and just remember to relaxflowerforyou

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Sun 02/15/09 03:07 PM


On another dating site, I seen someone that I use to work with and I do find him interesting and I wink him and he did not responde back yet or maybe he don't like me.I know one thing I am not going to run behind him.I wink him once and that is enough.I was always told not to run behind a man, let them come to you.What do you think on this issue? I believe I am a nice catch and I have a lot going for myself and some guys don't want a woman like me and what is up with that.The guy put in his profile, Respect yourself and me.Give him a chance and you won't be disappoint.WELL!HERE I AM!? I know looks are not everything,but I do have a lot going for myself.I am not a slut,I take care of my kids,I keep a clean house,I cook,I am a homebody(don't go to clubs,bars,etc.),I go to school.You know something, some of these guys will run behind these females(notice I did not say lady)that don't have any respect for themself.I had some boyfriends and a husband like that and here I am being a lady that I am,being look over.This kind of mess makes me angry.What is so cute about a Slut that don't have any respect for herself.Well,It's their lost,I know I have something to offer.frustrated


Wow, all that over the lack of response over a wink?
This don't have anything to do with a wink.I have been dealing with this issue w/men for a while.If you can read you can see that.Don't be judging me,because you don't know me.When I read other people post,I don't judge.I ask for advice not your judgement.Once again, READ.slaphead


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Sun 02/15/09 03:13 PM


I am getting to the point in just be happy being single,it is stress free.drinker


I don't know about anyone else...

But for me, it wasn't until I became 100% happy with myself, and being single, that I fully opened myself up to finding someone.

The funny thing about that is, when you finally realize that being single, although depressing at times, really isn't all that bad, then, and only then, will be when you will find someone who takes your breath away.

You are right,I do need to be 100% happy with myself,and being single.That is what I am planning on doing.Thank you and I thank everyone for their advice and not judging me.