I keep seeing on here women saying they want "an honest man" not trying to be cynical and looking at it from a mans point of veiw MOST women NOT all couldnt handle an HONEST man
here are some examples

does this dress make me look fat
honest man:yes it does
lying man:oh you look great in it

since you tryed it on you like it why ask our opinion if it makes YOU happy

next example
man sitting in the recliner watching football "hey do you mind running to the store for me and picking up a few things"
now this one is 50 50
honest inconsiderate man "can it wait till after the game"
dishonest considerate man "sure hun no problem"

i can think of a ton of others where most women would either get irritated or down right angry with an honest answer

now im not trying to be a hater or anything this is a discussion i want HONEST OPINIONS

MAY THE DISCUSSION BEGIN

This should be interesting, put your seat belt on dude!!

I'm just going to let out one huge sigh.

Yep.

I am just honest and just me.. if they don't like it thats there problem. and no I have never told a woman that a dress makes her look fat I told her that it wasnt the dress that made her look fat. don't ask me a question if you don't want an honest answer. but bottom line I am happy with your weight if you are.

Well, Well Well , Let's see I am pretty blunt,I would not ask your what you thought of my dress or how I looked in it,and would not really care what your thoughts were on it.(for example).

EXACTLY why else would we be with them lol

I think women are looking for a different type of honesty.
If he says "I love you, or I really care about you"
When all he really wants is to get into her pants for a while.

ok i see your point like i said just a discussion not trying to start a s*it storm lol

see if I just want to get into your pants I will just ask you if you want to hook up. there is no point in trying to make it sound like it is going to be more than it is

TRU DAT....Now thats honesty...

first of all petite women can't look fat in a dress,second i wouldn't run to the store i'd drive

Why not just say that another dress might look better on her?

if the question was would another dress look better on me then I would say that..but I try just to answer questions I am asked not tip toe around the issue

I will admit sometimes i have the problem of mouth being in gear before the brain is engaged and say the first thing on my mind instead of thinking if it will hurt them or not one of my flaws

There are ways to say it nicer. It's not about tip toeing around the issue, it's about being nice.

aaaaaahhhhhhhh person after my own heart SMARTA$$ through and through lol

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well if she needs me to say it a certain way ot make her feel better than she has some self esteem issues which only she can fix anyway .. and until she can be happy with who she is than she isnt ready for a relationship anyway