Topic: Photos
iamw8ingforu's photo
Fri 02/13/09 11:54 AM
Why do women with a little age on them constantly post pictures of themselves from 6-8 even 10 years ago? Relationships of any kind are based on honesty and trust - the honesty comes from the start and the trust has to be earned. I would think a pic from the past is a little deceiving, yes?

no photo
Fri 02/13/09 12:02 PM
Edited by 2KidsMom on Fri 02/13/09 12:06 PM
Agreeable------My pics are all current. flowerforyou ohwell glasses smokin and im kinda chunky and old,,,,,LOL...

Urg04es's photo
Fri 02/13/09 12:05 PM
Not everyone is ashamed of their age. There are still some of us that are still keeping it real out here.

franshade's photo
Fri 02/13/09 12:07 PM

Why do women with a little age on them constantly post pictures of themselves from 6-8 even 10 years ago? Relationships of any kind are based on honesty and trust - the honesty comes from the start and the trust has to be earned. I would think a pic from the past is a little deceiving, yes?


yay, doesn't apply to me, I have more than a little age on me (M-W only) rofl besides I like my default pics flowerforyou




lilith401's photo
Fri 02/13/09 12:12 PM
There is a guy I've talked to a couple times who posts pictures from at least ten years ago.

I find men do it just as much as women.

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 02/13/09 12:13 PM
surprised I had a feeling they have been lying, damn those wemansurprised

no photo
Fri 02/13/09 12:17 PM
but I looked really good in 1992!!!surprised

oldsage's photo
Fri 02/13/09 12:21 PM

but I looked really good in 1992!!!surprised


Looks good now.

People are so worried about NOT measuring up.

VANITY....all VANITY

What you see is wht you get with this Old Sage.
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Mystique42's photo
Fri 02/13/09 12:22 PM
Pucker up sweet tart... this is a pic of the real me taken a few days ago.

Gentleblank's photo
Fri 02/13/09 12:32 PM
I would like to say that my photo is the most current one that I have and I look exactly the same. Truthfully, I wouldn't post a picture of myself if it didn't show me as the way I truly look now. To me that is being dishonest and how could anyone expect to start any kind of relationship based on dishonesty.

feralcatlady's photo
Fri 02/13/09 12:32 PM
I am proud to be almost 50 years old....and have no reason to decieve anyone.....




MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 02/13/09 12:34 PM

Why do women with a little age on them constantly post pictures of themselves from 6-8 even 10 years ago? Relationships of any kind are based on honesty and trust - the honesty comes from the start and the trust has to be earned. I would think a pic from the past is a little deceiving, yes?



<<<<This really is what I look like:tongue:

downhomechik's photo
Fri 02/13/09 12:35 PM
None of mine are more than a few months old....

MelodyGirl's photo
Fri 02/13/09 12:36 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Fri 02/13/09 12:43 PM

There is a guy I've talked to a couple times who posts pictures from at least ten years ago.

I find men do it just as much as women.


This is a true statement! :wink:

I don't think this is a gender issue. It has more to do with confidence.

I post more pix than the norm -- I think -- so that there is nothing to hide, and I try to use pix that are no more than one year old.

Many times I have met online dates in person only to find they are heavier or they are not as they appeared in their pix. I'm leary of guys that only post one pic now. I'd rather see a few of his settings, styles, and angles. winking :thumbsup:

There isn't a double standard anymore among posting pictures. Both sides of the gender equation may have a cross to bear. drinks

That being said -- I am proud of my age and with the way I look. I turn 43 on Tuesday, and I feel wonderful.

As long as people are honest from the start, another person will embrace everything about them if there is chemistry from witin. What they consider to be flaws, might be sexy to another!

Melody flowers

Seakolony's photo
Fri 02/13/09 12:37 PM
I have no issue with the way I look at the age I am now.

no photo
Fri 02/13/09 12:43 PM
I put up new pics every two months...my current ones are a week old....why not be honest...if you ever meet they are going to know obviously...so let them like you for you and not who they think you are.flowerforyou