Well, I'm not a new member here, but I have a topic that we can talk about. Why is it so hard for some people to commit to a relationship? I mean...I have tried and tried to commit, to whomever was involved in my past and to no avail. Funny how I hear women tell me that guy's cannot commit to their girfriends...Within my mind, I say to myself whenever I hear them say this to me "What about my past girlfriends and their lack of commitment towards me!?"
I have been told that my feelings are too strong and they feel that they cannot keep up with them, but I say "Why do they feel that running next to this feelings of strong love is going to be tiredsome to women that claim, that they cannot find true love!?"
Is making a decision of pure love to sex love that hard to make for someone's future??

Almost forgot question lol..anyway What about Pure True Love---with Great Sex.

for a great many people it is very difficult to handel accept or return love in the way you are thinking..and yes if some one feels they cannot return the same "love" to the same degree they will leave the relationship

Well said.

Too many people nowdays just want what's quick and easy, if it gets too difficult or boring...run.

Not hard at all.

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If you truly love someone then love making is much more meaningful and passionate.

Its because some people equate unconditional love as total and superior control. They think that the love they receive should be on their terms only. These f*ckers should have pets and not relationships. Because their pets can give them that love. Not a human. Humans are not pets.

You hit it right there sir. I'm copying this into a file so I can read it when I waiver on something I've been worrying over lately. Thank you for that.

You're welcome. Too bad I had to learn this from experience. This lesson goes hand in hand with ultimatums in a relationship. If anyone puts an ultimatum in a relationship ever- that relationship is over. "Either the dog/ cat goes or I go". And "If you don't do this/ or that for me". And the infamous "If you really loved me you would".....relationship over.

"Love is misunderstood to be an emotion; actually, it is a state of awareness, a way of being in the world, a way of seeing oneself and others."
~ David Hawkins

I want the pure love. Sex love is part of it. To have it otherwise is to choose having just part of the rainbow when all of it--and the sun and light itself--are what is needful and right.

I don't see that commitment is harder for one gender then it is for the other. Men/Women both have issues at times with commitment.

But if one wants to be with someone bad enough commitment should come easy. Love is not something that one should always have to explain to the one they are with.

As far as Sex love or should it be called Love of Sex instead. If one is truly in love with the one they are with then sex turns into and act of Making Love that will leave one with no doubt they are in love with the one they are with and not there just for the sex.

I guess that would be a problem in the sex area.

I always get the supersize me, combo deal.
Heavy on the secret sauce...