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Topic: Have any of you wondered
buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Sat 01/31/09 08:02 PM
It really pisses me off when people do that hi there Buttons , my sweet nice to see you im doing ok.. ty

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Sat 01/31/09 08:02 PM
They're mildly retarded... That fits more than a few I'm sure.

FreeToB Joined Wed 07/02/08 Posts: 1332	Sat 01/31/09 08:07 PM
Frequently, people don't want advice, but rather confirmation of thier own conclusions on the subject. Especially if they argue with you. Or maybe your advice just sucks.

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Sat 01/31/09 08:08 PM


IndigoIllusions Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 5625	Sat 01/31/09 08:09 PM
It really pisses me off when people do that Some people just want to vent, and like others said, to agree with them. ***I need a giant picture of that little swearing dude for my front door, that's cool.

Roco Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 1165	Sat 01/31/09 08:12 PM
misery wants to engage roco

Redshirt Joined Tue 02/26/08 Posts: 2109	Sat 01/31/09 08:13 PM
why some people ask for advice, but argue with you when you are trying to help? Wtf is that about? Perhaps they simply need someone to bounce things off and are not really wanting advice. Need someone to listen to them.

scoundrel Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 5960	Sat 01/31/09 08:16 PM
Complex people. If they are new, then they are fearful. Anything might come across as justifying argument. If they are not new, then other things, like the age or sex or their own personal history might trigger a negative reaction. That's why many of us say, "Get in the threads, and get to know people." Until they do, what's the use? Nobody is running from site to site asking for advice on their profile...are they?

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Sat 01/31/09 08:17 PM
Complex people. If they are new, then they are fearful. Anything might come across as justifying argument. If they are not new, then other things, like the age or sex or their own personal history might trigger a negative reaction. That's why many of us say, "Get in the threads, and get to know people." Until they do, what's the use? Nobody is running from site to site asking for advice on their profile...are they? Not sure, but some do ask more than once here.

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Sat 01/31/09 08:20 PM
why some people ask for advice, but argue with you when you are trying to help? Wtf is that about? Perhaps they simply need someone to bounce things off and are not really wanting advice. Need someone to listen to them. If someone asks, why can't I get a date or how come no one ever responds to me, I take it as them asking for advice and answers.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Sat 01/31/09 08:28 PM
Some people were born, raised, and live to be defensive and confrontational. They won't change. They won't mature. They are happy in their misery and stupidity and are more happy if they can make others as miserable as themselves. So they try.

Alzeimer Joined Thu 10/23/08 Posts: 2268	Sat 01/31/09 08:28 PM
Good or bad advice is not the question, any advice is not always the right advice and the person asking for it has the right to accept it or not whether that advice is good or not. People argue about everything on this forum so why would it be different here, even the people giving the advice argue between themselves sometimes about the advice to give. Humans just love to argue and have the last word

scoundrel Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 5960	Sat 01/31/09 08:38 PM
I gave up on arguing with myself. It wore me out, trying to get the last word in.

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Sat 01/31/09 08:40 PM
I gave up on arguing with myself. It wore me out, trying to get the last word in. I still do that. Especially when I'm behind the wheel. I enjoy the weird looks I get.

FreeToB Joined Wed 07/02/08 Posts: 1332	Sat 01/31/09 08:46 PM
But what if they are asking something where they seemingly have not come to their own conclusion? I see it all the time in the rate me threads. Hate to say it but some people just seem to love to argue. It's easy HERE. No real consequences. They can turn you off. I used to post on a DSS (Not D/S) site and there was this one guy that constantly kept arguments up..like he wanted the attention he got from...being hated. I mean as much as you can be hated someone online. FBI finally busted him and everyone knew about it. Posted his court records, all the news on how they took his home, all his money, his equipment. Funny, I was happy.

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Sat 01/31/09 09:52 PM
why some people ask for advice, but argue with you when you are trying to help? Wtf is that about? It's an effort to get someone to cosign their used cow food.