on here with their exploits had a effect on your decision making as a no they seem to,sacrificial...i believe to many on here worry about what others think...sort of like jesus...follow me for i am the way.

"Peter...I can see my house from here..."

I've always made up my own mind about people and situations, just because someone else had a good/bad experience doesn't mean you will too.

I'd say something but I'm afraid of what people will think (not)

You are awfully philosophical tonight.

Virtually every community I've belonged to is that way. Sometimes it's genuine and it wouldn't affect my views of the person, sometimes it comes off as clique-ish, or yes, following the leader. Such is life.

BTW....can I have some of what you are having?....

I just worry about what Totage thinks of me.

Truth is I believe..THAT it's all us guys faults that women hide some of their truths from us..
Because SOME of us dudes have held a ladies PAST against them..
So SHAME on SOME guys for doing that..
And THEY(ladies) have had to hide their thoughts and desires for many generations. To a point now where SOME still fear that to be real and open about their sexuality is a NO,NO...
A dude can say HE slept with over 30 ladies..
YOU WILL NEVER HEAR A LADY BOAST THAT!

And THATS why...

wow love the positive side of things

I balb and blab and nobody cares what I think...LOL

saving my energy for bigger fish

the past is what it is..and there it should stay
you learn what you should to understand a person..if you or hey cannot handle it...regardless of reasons why.. you cannot handle it



and no matter what the sex......it is not flattering to boast a numerous amount of sexual partners

despite some liberties of sexual awareness for women...

mpo is that numerous sexual partners would be undesirable....boasting about it...even more so...

if you have had numerous relations..be honest but not boastful

I am a Mingle God...worship me and by the way, I'm not only a mingle god but also a client

Nice thing about poor memory,

I can believe how many women I've loved

is more than I had time to be with

and fewer than I wish I could remember.

And not remembering them pizzes them off far more than saying how many I've been with.

Loss of memory truly sucks.

What is this topic about??

Not to try and retreat my thoughts here.
But to just SAY..
MEN have MADE WOMEN FEEL,,,they have to NOT be truthful with SOME of them about Everything they have been through.
And to ME,,,,THATS JUST SAD.
That we have done that to our society of ladies around the world.
SOME men feel THEY have to hide some details of their past lives...But to say WHATS done is over and doesn't matter now..
OK,,cool,,BUT,,If a person is going to spend the rest of their lives with another.
THEN, to me NOTHING should be SOMETHING,,that we fear or denigh talking about..
Because past pains can catch up with this NOW,,and nobody likes BIG surprises in their lives that could have and should have been discussed?
Just my deep mind of thoughts,lol...

I agree with you, those in a relationship should be able to share everything as if it were nothing...

Should all over yourself and you can't really blame anyone. What people should be able to handle and can are widely different things many time.

I can honestly say, I don't care what others think.

Me too...so what do you think of me Totage?

I care...