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What do you do with those Gyps???
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LOL see... Oh do we know his age? Never asked that? Did I miss anything after the granny panties? BTW who wears those anymore??? 
Can you loan me one?
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I met him at work...he was the customer I was his sales person. Anyway, I met him for coffee and he was a perfect gentleman... it went well...so I thought! LOL, now hes texting me some unusual stuff like..."top or bottom which do you prefer?" Whats the deal? Help me people...Do I have a red light on my head that blinks DO ME??? jeez...one coffee date and he's humping the air he sounds a bit too forward for my taste..but thats just me...Good luck 
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What do you do with those Gyps???
 
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How did I know you were going to say that! |
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Honey..."top" and "bottom" are BDSM terms.
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How did I know you were going to say that! I just happened to admit it!!!
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Honey..."top" and "bottom" are BDSM terms. 
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I don't know about some of these emails. Hows his sense of humor.
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I met him at work...he was the customer I was his sales person. Anyway, I met him for coffee and he was a perfect gentleman... it went well...so I thought! LOL, now hes texting me some unusual stuff like..."top or bottom which do you prefer?" Whats the deal? Help me people...Do I have a red light on my head that blinks DO ME??? Well you now know what he is interested in. 
Don’t pretend you are not interested in that... 
No I am not saying that at all, just too soon into it to be texting like that. Besides I would only accept texts like that from someone who I had already been intimate with, I think. |
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Edited by
74Drew
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Thu 01/29/09 09:31 PM
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I met him at work...he was the customer I was his sales person. Anyway, I met him for coffee and he was a perfect gentleman... it went well...so I thought! LOL, now hes texting me some unusual stuff like..."top or bottom which do you prefer?" Whats the deal? Help me people...Do I have a red light on my head that blinks DO ME??? i wouldn't deal with that guy anymore. any decent guy wouldn't ask questions like that. he'd have the patience to wait and find out without asking. |
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Edited by
markc48
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Thu 01/29/09 09:55 PM
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Well I seen some of her past posts. Did he? Remind you of your post on 12/20/08
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Just tell him that you don't appricate that & to leave you alone!
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Want to be straight with him. Tell him you will let him know after you decide wether you like him or not.
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he may be playing a get to know you better game.. ask him something back like.... mountains or the beach, candle light dinner at home or at a nice restraunt, coffee or tea... etc... This is one way to handle the situation since he is playing his version of the "options" game. By using options that more fit what you are looking for in a relationship, he "may" get the hint. Although if he doesn't, your next text reply should read: "Castration by dull knife or rusty scissors?" Even the slow guys in the crowd will get the message. |
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I met him at work...he was the customer I was his sales person. Anyway, I met him for coffee and he was a perfect gentleman... it went well...so I thought! LOL, now hes texting me some unusual stuff like..."top or bottom which do you prefer?" Whats the deal? Help me people...Do I have a red light on my head that blinks DO ME??? Well you now know what he is interested in.
Don’t pretend you are not interested in that...
No I am not saying that at all, just too soon into it to be texting like that. Besides I would only accept texts like that from someone who I had already been intimate with, I think. I don't know if it is too soon or not. I wasn't there during their conversation and don't know what was the vibe of it. But it’s clear that he felt comfortable enough to text such thing. Now the question is… was he joking and trying to get her to play along or was he just rushing in? Ultimately... Nobody can give her the right advice here as we know nothing about him and can only judge the situation based on our experience similar to this one... 
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Tell him straight out that you find his texts inappropriate and disrespectful. I've found bein honest and blunt tends to stop the inappropriate behavior and gets an apology. 
Or they don't want to play anymore and disappear. |
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Just tell him that you don't appricate that & to leave you alone!
nea... that's boring.. I say... play his game and see how deep the rabbit hole goes.. 
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Honey..."top" and "bottom" are BDSM terms.
So I don't even know what BDSM means...LOL...do tell me. |
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Per wikipedia:
BDSM is a complex acronym derived from the terms bondage and discipline (B&D, B/D, or BD), dominance and submission (D&S, D/S, or DS), sadism and masochism (S&M, S/M, or SM). |
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